My ex-boyfriend is going out with another girl, after telling me very sexual things. I know he's not mines anymore, but I'm really sad about it. Got any advice?
2007-10-25 14:36:12 · 21 answers · asked by Canday 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I flip through the radio station finding songs that fit exactly how I'm feeling, then I sing my heart out cry my heart out until I feel a sense of relief. And if I start feeling it again I go back to it. Music therapy, it can be any type of music, music represents about every emotion there is. Its a great tool in working out your emotions.
I also write letters that I never send, and if you intend to send them wait a few days, re-read the letter and you'll be thankful you didn't.
2007-10-25 14:40:35 · answer #1 · answered by Kellie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, why are u sad about it? what do u mean he tells u sexual thing? do u still have feeling for him? you have to know urself first, how long did u two been together?
if u r not been together for long u shudn't feel so bad for him and why did he tell u about the relationship and the intimacy that they've done. I think he is wrong for telling u about that, becuz that story is private, intimacy is only share with two people that respect each other and it shuldn't be blurt out with anyone else. and u, u shuld move on, let him go, let go the relationship, if u know that it is not working out, it is not healthy at all.. don't let him manipulate u by going back to him, by telling u stories of what was happening to him rite now. he shuld leave u alone, and if u two wants to be friends, give each other some space for now, and try to respect each other. You deserved to be happy so find someone or wait for someone to come along. Take it easy and learn how to let go...look forward for a better future...tomorrow is another day...take care and goodluck! :)
2007-10-25 21:55:50 · answer #2 · answered by joeyfaith 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're going to feel sad for a while and thats okay. If you feel like its too much for you to handle, talk to somebody you consider a really good friend. Go out with other people, preferably in groups so you don't feel like its a date. No matter what, don't let him sweet talk his way back into your life. They like to do that when they realize they messed up a good thing.
2007-10-25 21:41:21 · answer #3 · answered by Epiphani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look sweetie , you need to stay away from him, it sounds like he enjoys hurting you. Go out with some friends and find yourself a new guy or just play the field for a while . You will feel better.
Good Luck
2007-10-25 21:39:15 · answer #4 · answered by BILL 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn the tables and show him how life with you could have been.
Enjoy life with friends and family. Male friends are ok and fun to be with, especially if he sees you, but be ware as you are very venerable at this time and most relationships on a rebound end up in failure.
2007-10-25 21:43:37 · answer #5 · answered by TEXAS LADY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
surround yourself with comforting things and people. hang out with friends and family, take up hobbies.... anything to occupy your mind. maybe even play the feild a little. rebound is good for your ego.
but, if your still not ready to be alone and if it still hurts after a few weeks, try talking to your ex. maybe you two could work it out and see that your better off with him...
best of luck
2007-10-25 21:41:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is just to wait and distract yourself. You're upset, you will be for a little while and there's no way around that, but it'll fade.
Try to hang out with your friends more often, it'll cheer you up.
2007-10-25 21:39:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is tough I know. I am a guy that just lost his girl and it is tough for me. The best thing I could suggest to you is to try to win him back if u care that much about him. If you do not care, maybe just don't talk to him so much, that way u don't have to hear about what he is doing with other girls.
2007-10-25 21:39:27 · answer #8 · answered by bushnana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
consider yourself lucky to have found out before things went to far and you got pregnant or married and found out he was cheating on you with her.
Find things to do to keep yourself busy, hang out with your friends or find new friends, and you will find the right person for you but if and when he wants to come back to you, and he may, be prepared to tell him to get lost and get on with a better life and more happiness in the future when you find a person loyal to you and not just after sex.
2007-10-25 21:43:16 · answer #9 · answered by Al B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
reality is that men will tell you what you want to hear!!!! get over it!!! there are sooooo man other men out there, dont dwell on 1 man, move on sweetheart hes not worth being sad over!!!! go out for a drink and have some fun!!! there are tons of fish in the sea!!!!
2007-10-25 21:40:37 · answer #10 · answered by pl61403 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋