ok, well i kissed my bf and we both don't know how to kiss. does anyone have any suggestions?
2007-10-25 14:33:21 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
1. Moisten your lips. Dry lips do not move well together. Just a light brush of your tongue over your lips will be sufficient to moisten them.
2. Angle your head. If your mouths meet dead-on, your noses will get in the way, and you will not be able to kiss deeply or smoothly. To avoid this, tilt your head slightly to one side. Make sure you do not both tilt your heads to the same side.
Close your eyes. As you approach for the kiss, look into your partner's eyes, but, once you are close to theirs, close your eyes. It can be a bit of a turnoff to be kissing and going cross-eyed .
3. Start with a gentle and soft closed-mouth kiss. The French kiss is an open-mouth kiss, but do not lunge in with your lips agape like you're going to eat them; instead, open your lips very slowly. If you were learning to speak French, you would probably start with the basics, vocabulary and grammar, before trying to write poetry. Well, the French kiss is like the poetry of kissing, and before you can be good at it, you have to master the closed-mouth kiss. Even after you have added French kissing to your romantic repertoire, it is usually better to start a kiss with closed lips.
4. Go Dutch on the decision to French. Kissing should be a shared decision. You need to have permission to French kiss someone, but when your lips are locked with their's you may not want to stop and ask, "Hey, this is great, but can I put my tongue in your mouth?". Open your lips slowly and just a little during the kiss so that one of your lips is sandwiched between theirs and one of theirs is between yours. As you are locking and re-locking lips, brush your tongue against your partner's lips ever so slightly. This should make it clear that you want to French kiss. If your partner's tongue does not respond in like fashion or if they pull away, you will have to save the French kiss for another time when you are both ready.
5. Explore with your tongue. If you and your partner seem to be enjoying the open-mouth kiss, slowly try to open your mouth a little bit more and gently push your tongue a little farther into their mouth. The tongue is very sensitive, and the mere act of touching your partner's tongue with your own will be very pleasant and stimulating for each of you. Do not stick your tongue too far into the mouth, as this can be a big turn-off. Instead, just gently and playfully touch tongues.
Good luck!
2007-10-25 14:38:03 · answer #1 · answered by Jacoby M 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Experiment. If you both know that you can't kiss, then it won't hurt to ask questions. The next time ur sitting on the couch watching tv, kiss him and ask him if he liked it like that. A few rounds of q&a with the kissing game and you'll start to figure this thing out. How do you like it?
2007-10-25 21:47:42 · answer #2 · answered by Jason M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know...
honestly, there really isn't a "real" way to kiss anybody. Kissing is just a natural way being intimate. Just go with the flow. Kissing doesn't have a rules or a "How-to"s. Kissing is touching the lip with your lip and going how it feels right.
Don't worry about it.
Mstine
2007-10-25 21:39:15 · answer #3 · answered by Mstine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember there's no "right" way to kiss. It tends to come naturally so if you kiss a lot more you'll both get used to it.
First kisses are usually really awkward the first few times, don't worry about it.
2007-10-25 21:37:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
OK... You need to have real soft lips and when you pucker up kiss each other with you mouth just opened a little and when you touch lips you can ease your tung towards his and his towards you and just touch them together... That should be it.. Good luck
2007-10-25 21:41:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its more instinct than than it is a task that you can learn. just do what feels nice.the more you do it the better the two of you will get at it.careful though.kissing can lead other places.take it slow and don't go to the next step till you know your ready.
p.s. a bit of bad NeWS for ya,every one is different,if things don't work with your current boy friend and you get a new one,you got to learn all over again.
2007-10-25 21:45:33 · answer #6 · answered by br549242 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK
put ur mouth together
move inn rythmical motions (dont go all crazy and mke it look like ur eating eachother
little by little start putting ur tongue in ( dont stick it in right away)
and enjoy
u can like play games with ur tongues like i dunno umm just u can like move ur tongue with his or not let his cath up to it i dunoo that way youll like it and ull like enjoy kissing
and CLOSE UR EYES its way to weird and soo not romantic to kiss with ur eyes open its just WEIRD
and yahh b gentle...
also wen ur gonna kiss dont put ur both head stright up cuz ur noses will ge tin the way so either of u should tilt ur head a little.
and when u wanna end it: dont pull away cuz hell think he did sumtin wrong and it cud get awkward after the kiss. kind of like go a bit slower and pull his lips back a little and then pull slowly away and open ur eyes and smile...
have fun!!!
2007-10-25 21:41:25 · answer #7 · answered by =] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is regular open mouthed
and french kissing with your tongues entwined
watch some movies and see how the pros kiss
slow and steady then build up to more intense mouth movements - use your lips -
2007-10-25 21:37:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even at the age of 62 years I have not kissed anybody including my wife. I am sorry I do not know to kiss. Yours,
bravura
2007-10-25 21:36:30 · answer #9 · answered by Raghavendra R 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I remember my first kiss . going in for the kiss & she turned bang a bobby pin straight up my noise .so there no ones perfect.
2007-10-25 21:38:53 · answer #10 · answered by la$t drinx$ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋