my sister said that im damn too selfish for not going with her in a house near her work. That house scares me out of my wits. Whenever I wake up I find myself being bind for 30 seconds by this strange force..and that's only in that house. Waay pass your average horror. I'd be alone there for almost a day because she has work but needs me because she scared there too. is it wrong not to come with her this time? and am I being so selfish?? she is like SO MAD and didn't even bid me goodbye..i feel awful...
2007-10-25 14:26:21 · 6 answers · asked by kymkam 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
thank you thank you so much for your advices, all of it had given me comfort, greatly appreciated.. :)
2007-10-25 14:46:32 · update #1
hi hon...
we can't always say "yes"....and if the place bothers you, that's enough reason to say NO.
this seems to be about self-preservation, not selfishness. if you are creeped out in that house, there is no reason on earth you should be forced to go.
don't say "yes" when you mean "no". it's not healthy... sometimes we have to stretch a little for others, but most adults can do things for themselves, and by themselves.
take care.
2007-10-25 14:34:15 · answer #1 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well don't feel awful. If she's scared of the house, she's probably really scared of the house too, and just would want a person to keep her company so she wouldn't be as scared. It's selfish if you said to yourself, 'forget her, she's the one that needs to be there, not me. I'm getting the heck out of here.' But if you said, ' I'm absolutely terrified by this house, I don't think it's safe' then it's not selfish - you're looking out for yourself. There's a difference between selfishness and looking out, and neglecting yourself. Is it possible for you guys to find some apartment to go to, where you can be close to each other more than a house can let you? Your sister's probably just stressed from the house and work, and probably depended on you as someone to look to.
2007-10-25 21:33:24 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your not selfish. It's just certain places (same as people) give you bad vibes. It has to do with you past life. In that past life, something really bad must have happened to you. Just like when you meet somebody for the first time and you don't like him. It's because in a past life, you two were bitter enemys.
So your not being selfish in the least. You can tell your sister I told you this. EXAMPLE: Have you ever thought about somebody for about a day or two and within a two week period, they call you?
2007-10-25 21:39:10 · answer #3 · answered by oldschoolelf 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt go unless I had the SPIRIT of GOOD in me and cast that "force" which is demonic out of that house.
You can have that power, read John 3:1-5 and acts 2:38 go to a united pentecostal church and they will tell you what you need to do and you can have the same relationship and power the Apostles had with the LORD hon.
2007-10-25 21:34:13 · answer #4 · answered by Joe F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to move. This sounds alittle scarey. It could be inhabited an evil entity and wants to cause strife in your lives. MOVE
2007-10-25 21:46:28 · answer #5 · answered by cats mother 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like neither one of you likes the place. why don't you move????
2007-10-25 21:29:54 · answer #6 · answered by KRIS 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋