You prayed to find them ...you did . You were married but no more . They were everything you wanted ...and they left you but you know they loved you ...why is that love wrong or is it? Was this what God wanted or r you to stay with the love?
2007-10-25 12:29:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
God hasnt been able to come out of the imaginations of children and semievolved things
2007-10-25 12:51:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a lot of pain in your question, I know what it is like to have someone you love leave you. I also know that God picked me up in my despair and changed my life and showed me what true love is.
Love is like a triangle, with the man and woman at the bottom and God at the top. As each one moves closer to God the closer they get to each other. If one does not move closer to God and the other does it actually seperates the couple. There really isn't any way to force someone to love God or to love you. You can only trust that God has a plan for you and will help you.
2007-10-25 19:40:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We often deceive ourselves and shut our eyes to what is real because we are caught up with the feelings that we want to make us feel good. Love is blind, at least what passes for love today. It is blind of reality. If you had real love it would not fade but only progress to bigger and better things. Maybe it's time to take a good look at oneself and realize some genuinely important things about love, self and life.
2007-10-25 19:38:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
God is the ultimate authority, not scapegoat. It is certainly not wrong to love, but this sounds a bit possessive to me. Without knowing the details, prepare to move on in your life and love her enough to give her freedom. Perhaps she'll rethink her loss...
2007-10-25 19:39:42 · answer #4 · answered by Thomas E 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is overrated. And it is totally unpredictable. You can bend over backwards for a person, but if they're unhappy anyway in the relationship, no amount of praying is going to change that.
I don't sound bitter, do I? :-D
2007-10-25 19:34:48 · answer #5 · answered by Here..have some Kool-Aid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I must be the only one who didn't get the point..
ACT not pray. Get back with them or move on..the choices are simple and blaming a God only adds to your stress
best of luck to you what ever you decide
2007-10-25 19:48:10 · answer #6 · answered by FallenAngel© 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
They left you. It must be painful. We are not repsonsible for the choices of others but they hurt sometime anyway
It is not wrong to love someone
2007-10-25 19:35:43 · answer #7 · answered by whirlingmerc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is not wrong.
Relationships sometimes end...often end....but the love, while it was there, was real enough and had some purpose in God's plan.
2007-10-25 19:33:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have gotten yourself in a real bind there. Best thing to do is move on. Time is a great healer, it always works....always.
2007-10-25 19:33:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in Matthew, Jesus expounds that once you are married to someone... if he/she leaves you and marries another he/she commited adultry... if you marry another you've commited adultry... until he/she is dead. You are supposed to remain true to your ex spouse until one of you is dead... I know that's not popular, but it's Bible
2007-10-25 19:32:36 · answer #10 · answered by Matthew P (SL) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋