how can i forget about a guy...?

Question

who i really like but i'm not sure if he likes me. i know he used to & every1's been saying he still does & he's been giving me all the signs but then on monday i asked him out & he said he was dating some1 else!

i want to forget about him but we're in tons of classes 2gether & i still really want to date him.

Answer 1

Sounds tough, I know it can be very hard emotionally. I wasted 3 whole bloody months dating a really hot guy, who then went on to tell me that yeah he loved me but my sister had a special something that I didn't, so he married her instead! I still can't look him in the eye! I get so embaressed! Last time I saw him I burst into tears and had to leave the house.
But I think that if he's been giving you all the signs, and at the same time dating another girl, then he hasn't been very fair to either of you, and he can't truly love or even be very hooked on his new girlfriend. It seems that by flirting with you, it probably won't last with this other girl. He dosen't sound like he's worth it, and knowing what I know about men now, I really wouldn't bother but if you wanted him, then there definetly ways for you to get him.
If you go to http://www.ManMistakeEraser.com and sign up to get an email every few days you can learn one hell of a lot in a very short space of time. You can also learn how to forget about blokes who aren't worth picking your nose for!
Also, you're worth more than this, and have a hell of a lot of self respect and pride. so if you see him tomorrow, smile and be friendly but let him think that you don't care if he's dating someone whos not you, because you have better things to do with your time and your life does not stop because he dosen't want to go out with you right now. In fact, You're going out with Brad Bloody Pitt! And he's a friggin good snogger! Go on, make him a bit jelous. He deserves it! ; )
There are plently of other guys out there, and only one you!

Answer 2

well this seems like you have asked for more variables or advice than an answer.

I would suggest to talk to the guy and get to know him. Is he really the guy that you want to date? maybe not after you get to know him. Plus you will then know when he is available, if infact he is the guy that you want.

OR

Try setting your self with another guy, try for the impossible, you just might be surprised. There are a lot of guys out there that don't know how to aproach women or are too shy.

OR

Imagine just what he could be doing with the other girl, chances are it will turn you off of him completely.

Other suggestions read a good psych book or talk to your freinds and family about it. It may be a bit embarassing, but you would be surprised what different views and opinions they have, mainly because they care about you.

Answer 3

There are so many cute and interesting guys out there. YOu will get over him very quickly, if you allow yourself to become interested in other guys.
How can you forget? I don't know. YOu probly won't forget completely, even at your 20 year high school reunion, LOL, but by then he'll be big, fat, and mostly bald. So be glad you are not dating him. Go for a younger guy now, it's easy to date middle schoolers, and they do grow up eventually

Answer 4

Jeez....something practically everyone has gone through at sometime in their lives.

The only think you can really do is keep telling yourself that he's spoken for..and that at this time, he can't be anything other than your friend.

Spend your time with other friends and try to keep yourself occupied by thinking of other things.

Don't think that rushing out to see someone else will help you forget....it won't. It will make you feel worse as this person wont be who you want to be with...but is someone yours using and eventally you'll feel bad about that and the fact that he can't replace the person you really want to be with.

Before you know it..you'll have moved on.......good luck

Answer 5

Best thing hunn...
Show your strenght... you are a woman take advantageif it. Show him that he is the one that missed out NOT YOU! better to attract with a smile than to seem desparate. Plus as a woman be mindful of his new girlfriend. Men actually pay attention to that.

FYI...
Never go completely off sings when it comes to men it will only make matters worse.
Because men have 2 heads its sometimes hard to determine which sign is coming from which head... because they can be easily confussed. Be VERY VERY VERY careful

Answer 6

seem like you're not interested anymore (your feelings will eventually fade away), meet other guys, hang out with people, and you will eventually forget you ever liked this guy!

hopefully he will break up with his girlfriend soon and go out with you lol jk

you can still be friends with him, but don't flirt or ask him to hang out anywhere, for now.
its good that you asked him out, because you would still be wondering 'what if' he likes me and be all in that crap lol so now you can finally know that he's dating someone else and can move on with your life, and when he gets out of the relationship, you can be by his side and then hopefully you might go out with him (if you are still interested in him, that is)

Answer 7

i was going through the same thing over the summer. then i opened my eyes and i started talking to other guys and hanging out with them. then when the school year started i asked one of those friends out and he said yes. we have been dating now for about 2 months. open your eyes. become friends with some other guys. forget about that 1 guy. he has moved on and you should too.

Answer 8

I really hate to break it to you, but life is full of disappointments. You need to hang out with your other friends, deepen your relationship with them or start new friendships......create new unforgettable memories. I assume you're in middle or high school. Those years have the potential to be the best years of your life, don't let a guy drag you down. Dating can be overrated anyway. You may have classes with him, but you don't have to hang on him. Be polite, but don't hang with him too much or you'll reaggrevate the feelings of wanting to go out with him. Agree to be friends, period.

Answer 9

Go out with friends and keep yourself busy. That should help you forget about him. I had to forget about a guy before and the only way I forgot about him was when I went on with my life and I didn't talk about him.

Answer 10

Ask him if he wants to go out with you again after the date with the other girl is over or get a lot of your friends and hang out A LOT to get those thoughts out of your mind...