You know what im talking about. A guy who always checks you out and stares at you, but when you talk to him he acts completely uninterested and arrogant and flat out rude. Why do guys do this? im getting so tired of it. I thought they'd grow out of it by now, im a senior in high school and some guys still act soooo dumb. Why do they even do that in the first place?
2007-10-25 10:34:50 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Defense mechanism. Girls treat nice guys like dirt. "Nice guys finish last" and "treat a girl like dirt and she'll stick like mud" did not originate from nothing, sadly. I can't even count how many times I've seen an absolutely stunning girl with some alcoholic douchebag of a bf who likes to think he's a bad boy. When you can stop swooning over guys who have anger issues, we'll stop treating you like garbage.
2007-10-25 10:40:33 · answer #1 · answered by Drew 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sweetie I'm 28 and I'm a big girl as well. When i was in my teens i couldn't get guys away from me i was thin until i had my daughter 4 years ago and i cant seem to find a man that likes big girls either but you know what, that isn't going to stop me I'm still the same fun loving person i was years ago and there is someone out there that is going to want me. But my dear you have to be patient. You ll find a man someday that will love you for you and don't let anyone tell you different.. Please take this seriously Ive been there done that!
2016-04-10 05:20:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did a research on this! It turns out that women like it when men act like this because of a mental game. You see, it's a competitive sport, to see who gives in easier. Women want a guy that will control them by having them take control. Making women feel submissive, making women feel that their man has confidence. We act this way because you want us to, if we acted "nice" it would seem we lack the confidence, and that's what most women want, a confident, arrogant, and flat out rude man.
2007-10-25 10:41:49 · answer #3 · answered by Pharm tech 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is to impress his friends...Very immature,but what do high school boys know anyways.He may have just been watching you and NOT checking you out.I get accused of it all the time..My eyesight is really bad so I cant help staring at people...!But for another viewcheck this page out..
2007-10-25 10:41:50 · answer #4 · answered by Civic_Drifter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, absolutely not I hate it when I see a guy treating a girl like crap... Guys should be treating girls like princesses... opening doors, etc.
guys should appreciate girls... they should treat them with respect, care, love and be gentle. Not rude, jerks.
Us nice guys get left in the dirt while the girls date the bad-boys... I'll never understand...
2007-10-25 10:41:22 · answer #5 · answered by John 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it from me, that type of person doesn't grow out of it - ever. I know someone who dates a guy exactly like that and she is devoted to him, while everyone else finds him revolting. A certain type of girl goes for a person like that. Keep looking around because luckily not all guys are like that.
2007-10-25 10:38:48 · answer #6 · answered by jenesuispasunnombre 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys r guys, u cant help their natural retartedpersonaities. they cant be sweet, even though if they r ur boyfriend, they just say something rude, they are just like dat. I have a friend, who's bf is sooooooo cute, and everytime they c each other, he just treat her like a non-popular girl and say stuff' bout her. U just cant trust boyz.
2007-10-25 10:41:05 · answer #7 · answered by 〖iGirl ☆ RocKv〗 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys poorly play the role of "Bad *** Rude Dude" thinking chicks dig it, but there wrong.
Some guy are way over themselves. They thing that their all that when in real life their a pile s**t!!
I knew some guys like that when I was in school & now there losers.
2007-10-25 10:40:27 · answer #8 · answered by jimineejavaa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't do that. I am a very kind and caring man (still in high school). When I look at a woman I talk to her like I talk to my best friend. she wants to know something I will tell her. So please don't say the guys, as in all of us, do that. thank you.
2007-10-25 10:39:17 · answer #9 · answered by Trust me I'm a genius. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear, I am 47, and I am so sorry ! It is imaturity, just ignore them. Everybody matures in their own time.When I was a senior we were young men with responsobilities so maturing came early !1978 Just wait it out hon,again I am so sorry !
2007-10-25 10:49:34 · answer #10 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋