im 15 & flat chested. i had my period for 1 year. everyone has boobs but me. i want to be a B cup. i dont want implants & excerises dont work. how can i make them grow? i dont look good in tops cuz i dont have boobs. my friends tease me about being flat. they squeeze their boobs together and say "arent you jealous?" i just run to bathroom & cry. i came home & ran to my room crying cuz kids on the bus were teasing me about it. i was throwing everything on the floor in my room. i screamed at my mom and told her to go away. then i slammed the door & beat up the pillows. help its ruining my life
2007-10-25 10:22:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
You're 'friends' sound like a bunch of immature morons. There's nothing wrong with having a flat chest.
2007-10-25 10:26:07 · answer #1 · answered by Amirra 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, honey, there is NOTHING that can make them grow except genetics and surgery. You're too young for surgery, and it will take a few more years until genetics are finished. If you only got your period a year ago, then you still have several more years before your breasts finish growing.
Frankly, your friends are mean and are not your friends if they tease you till you cry. Either tell them it really bothers you and ask them to be kinder to you, or get some new friends.
Instead of screaming at your mom and blaming her for something that isn't her fault, apologize and ask for her help. Tell her why you're upset and how deeply this bothers you, then ask her to buy you a padded or uplifting bra to accentuate what you have.
It's okay honey, your life isn't over yet. Give yourself time, and love the body you have, even in transition. Remind yourself that boobs can't earn you anything that matters - you'll find love and happiness no matter what your cup size.
2007-10-25 18:04:57 · answer #2 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
m'dear..... when I was your age, I was an "early" bloomer, but I hated wearing "girly" things... like bras. While all the other girls were prancing around the locker room in their training bras with their flat chests, I was in my regular "undershirt." The girls would say to me, "Oh, WHY aren't you wearing a BRA? You could USE one!" This was way before the "Women's Lib" days of burning bras, of course.
Girls will be girls, no matter what era.
Sounds to me like you're about ready to blossom yourself, because your hormones are truly RAGING right now. Your life isn't ruined. You are allowing this to ruin it... don't let the other girls have that much "power" over you. You're stronger than that.
You cannot "make them grow," they've got to do that all on their own, and it will come in due course. Until that time, why not actually TALK to your mother about the situation. Maybe she has some ideas that you haven't thought of yet.
Have a polite day.
2007-10-25 19:00:07 · answer #3 · answered by wyomugs 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As you grow older you will be thankful.
Your a fifteen year old and I am guessing that you think boys wont be attracted to you because you dont sport a huge set. You are wrong. Guys that go for that are not mature.
You will find you a man one day that looks on the inside and see a beautiful person.
My wife is "flat" but beautiful on the inside.
If thats not the issue, I will be surprised.
The reason I said you will be thankful is because as you grow older, the gals with the bigger set start to sag, and they have to buy these rebar re-enforced bras to look good and they are no longer attractive even to their husbands. So I would just accept what you have, be the awesome person you are, and not worry about it.
2007-10-25 17:46:56 · answer #4 · answered by sunshine man 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I could tell you that crap about its whats on the inside that counts, and in the long run it is, however, physical attraction is what most people look for at first. Ok. I am 25 and believe me there are much worse things than being flat chested. I know that you compare yourself to your friends but you need to look at your body and see what you have that they might not. Do you have a great butt? Face? and the key is to find a man that loves what you have that makes you special. I have big boobs, always have but never had that nice of a butt. lol. Thats why some men are boobs men, and others are butt men. I have had many men tell me that boob size does not matter to them at all. That small boobs were what they actually liked. Stop comparing yourself to your friends. Find what makes you special. and use that.
I promise as you get older you will see that no one loves everything about their body. You got to find what you do love about yourself and concentrate on that.
2007-10-25 17:34:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
You're still young, you have plenty of time to develop. And trust me, boobs are not all that they are cracked up to be. It sounds to me like you need some more mature (or at least nicer) friends who won't make you feel bad about yourself. Everyone matures at a different rate. Unfortunately there's nothing you can do to make them grow over night. Just try to like the body you have now. I bet that in 15 years you will be dying for the body you had at 15, so enjoy it while you can.
2007-10-25 19:39:14 · answer #6 · answered by ruby4233 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My goodness how evil!
Find some beauties like Keira Knightly or whoever else and point out beauty is not only in boobs.
And tell those wicked girls you are working on character now (and do work on it) because boobs could be fixed (later) but good character takes a real mature woman to develop.
And don't be so consumed with boobs to find yourself staring at their boobs.
These are 'friends'?? Slap her up side the head. jk
2007-10-25 18:15:06 · answer #7 · answered by K in Him 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
awww, being flat chested is not the worst thing. I am 30 years old and mother of 3 and I am barely a B. I mean being small it is just better I think cause you wont have STUPID males just staring at them, and you wont have back pains, or when you run they wont bounce and hit your face and hurt as hell. I see it as an ADVANTAGE... Dont be so harsh on yourself or your parents cuase if you ever decide on implants Who will pay for them?!
2007-10-25 17:29:06 · answer #8 · answered by you suck. 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I understand how you feel. If you have an A cup, it's not that bad is it? Try buying one of those suction cups for busts enlarging. It should work to a certain extent.
You should dump that friend who teased you.
2007-10-25 22:03:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are ONLY FIFTEEN!
You grow into your mid 20's.
Please be patient, love your body, and concentrate on schoolwork instead of your breast size.
Guys love all sizes and shapes.
Your friends aren't really your friends if they tease you like that, find new ones.
2007-10-25 20:49:51 · answer #10 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋