my boyfriend said he was in iraq right now and last night i asked my neighbor if he knew him and he said yes and he also said that hes in the same squad as him and that he is home and not in iraq...so what should i do? should i break up with him for lying or forgive him?
2007-10-25 08:16:33 · 39 answers · asked by bored 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my neighbor has been home since like may...
2007-10-25 08:21:47 · update #1
and yes i know hes here so...there is no reason why hed want to stay he was there for like a year
2007-10-25 08:29:04 · update #2
Ditch him now. I could send some of the lads from my Squadron (who have just got back from Iraq) to help you get over the d**khead.
2007-10-25 08:21:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is not in iraq anymore if he ever was. But I think that you should try to contact him because you never know there might be a legit reason why he has not called you. I am in iraq again for the second time and last time I came home I know I didn't really get to much time to call anyone or talk to them because I was so used to getting back to normal. Good Luck don't flip out on him or punch him like all these inmature people are talking about up here. Be mature about it talk to him..
2007-10-25 08:23:22 · answer #2 · answered by maybeeoneday 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your boyfriend what Regiment he is in, and what Squadron he is in. Then ask your neighbour the same questions. You need to find out if your neighbour is telling you the trueth first before you confront your boyfriend. If it turns out that your boyfriend is lying ask him why, or you can ask his family when will he be home on R&R. More often than not a tour of Iraq lasts 6 months & you qualify for R&R after 3 months. Should you finnish him if he is lying ? that all depends why he is lying, i just hope you do the right thing.
2007-10-25 08:30:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the choice has been taken out of your hands there. He's already broken up with you and you just didn't know it.
That's what it's called when a bf goes off and has a whole secret life that you know nothing about -- it's to get AWAY from YOU, and WITH someone ELSE. That's the whole purpose of a lie like that.
It's over.
P.S. The neighbor might be lying, or your bf might be lying. The best thing to do is to check with whatever branch of the military he's in, to see exactly where he is instead of relying on neighbors OR him to tell you where he is.
2007-10-25 08:20:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Before you do anything get your facts!, when you are 100% of him not being in Iraq, Find yourself a new man, and keep the act over the phone with him just like he is doing with you, you will surly end up bumping into him with your new man.
Wish you luck
2007-10-25 08:21:56 · answer #5 · answered by sara76c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG!?? DUMP HIM. What an asshole!! Leave him. Get a hot guy and hopefully you run into him with the new guy and when you see him, act like you don't and smurk at him. He does NOT love you if he lied about going to Iraq? He is avoiding you. Face that. Because you will save yourself time and heartache down the road.
2007-10-25 08:18:59 · answer #6 · answered by Wonder Woman 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should find out the truth first... then go from there. If he really is home, well see how long he's been there. If it's only been a couple days then let it go, he's probably tired. If it's been more like a week, then he must not be in a hurry to see you.
2007-10-25 08:21:01 · answer #7 · answered by ******* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it depends if your neighbor is telling the truth. Ask your boyfriend if it's true, and hear his explanation. But if he has actually been lying to you about being home, I don't see what's forgivable about that.
2007-10-25 08:20:43 · answer #8 · answered by Heidi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask your boyfriend what town he is in and if he is attached with another unit....those sorts of questions...he may be lieing for a reason ...might want to find out what it is for...oh here is a good question to ask...ask him what time it is where he is the next time you talk to him...it is suppose to be roughly 8 hours ahead...the reason I say some of these questions is because my husband has been twice for war and is now back as a civilian...
2007-10-25 08:21:19 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure he is home and go to his house to confront him. Then break up with him and ignore any calls or effort he may make to get you back. This guy is a loser and a wimp for not being able to face you directly.
2007-10-25 08:24:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋