does he think im easy?

Question

thers this boy i know from school and he always says really dirty stuff to me, like yesterday he went " get your knickers off " and erlier on msn he said to me " suck me off "and i was like wtf :| and yesterday we went out together and he tried to feel me up :S
urghh its geting really annoying how do iget him to stop :(
oh im 14 btw

people do think im easy becauseiwear lots of make up and stuff, but im not

Answer 1

if you're trying to date him or something...stop right now. that's creepy behavior. especially when you're that young.

Answer 2

He's just an idiot. Ignore him. And don't forget, he's much "easier" than you are, if he's begging for it!
Boys your age often feel as if all their friends are far more experienced than they are, and he probably is very insecure. He has probably seen men behaving like this on TV or in the music industry, and feels it is normal. Or worse thinks he is being funny.
Chances are he will grow out of it.
But until then, dont be alone with him, and stay clear of any circumstances that would make you vulnerable to him. Just in case. And if he says something more to you, laugh and make sure to tell everyone what a sad desperate little loser this boy is. It's the only way because he will be embarrassed and boys that age HATE to be embarrassed.

Answer 3

He may not think you are easy, he may just be testing the waters to see if you are. You don't say how old he is, but if he is within a year or two of your age there is an immaturity factor at play as well.

Have you tried talking to him and telling him it bothers you for him to say these things to you or to try to cop a feel? If not, start there. If so and he still persists, enlist the help of a teacher or a parent you trust.

You shouldn't continue to put up with such unwanted advances. Don't "go out" with the jerk any more until he grows up a little.

Answer 4

He's probing. Well, that may not be the best word to describe it, but he is trying to see where your boundaries are. The farther you allow him to take it, the more he'll try. Not to mention, he'll tell his buddies and they may start, thinking you'll allow them to get off on you also.

Getting him to stop is easy:

1. stop hanging out with him - when he asks why your not hanging out with him, tell him that you can't stand the gross things he says or does to you.

2. keep him on a short leash - if he says something remotely out of line to you, lose your patience and tell him seriously that you have no interest in anything he has to say if he is going to continue talking to you that way. He will know that doing anything more adventurous, like feeling you up, might cause him a problem.

None of it is funny. You need to stick up for yourself and keep your boundaries very clear. If you don't demand respect, they aren't going to give it to you.

In the end, the girls who laugh these things off will be the ones with the skank reputation even if they haven't done anything to deserve it.

Answer 5

To tell you the truth, his behavior doesn't show that your easy unless your saying overly sexual stuff to him and giving him the wrong body language/signals. But, if your not then his actions are just proving that he's a creep and disrespectful to women. I think that you should tell him that his actions are unacceptable and that they creep you out. He might get mad he might not but more then likely not he will but, good thing is is that there are plenty other guys you can date and have crushes on. that's the best part about being your age. oh and tell him that your not easy and that your not just a booty call. if he can't accept that...then he isn't worth your time. simple as that. good luck.

Answer 6

i was there long time ago, boys that age want to seek attention doing those kind of thing and saying that...
i had this boy in 7th grade and he gould always say durty stuff to me and try to touch me....he did it the hole year because i would show that i care...the next year i complitly ignorded him and he got over it..

so what i suggest to do would be to ignor him and if he dose not stop tell your teacher or VP...be safe and dont talk to him because if you do then the he is going to keep on dong it....and specially don go out with him and hang out...thats the worse thing that you can do....

if i can go back to 7th grade i would kick that boys a s s !! god knows were he is now...

Answer 7

Um, this may seem inappropriate, but are you? If you are, he might have heard from other boys in school that you were easy, so he thinks it's an easy lay. Then again, if your not, just tell him to back the fu@k off. With verbal emphasis on the profanity. Sometimes hormonal teenage boys need to be put in their place.

Answer 8

no i don't think he thinks you're easy b/c u obviously haven't given up the goods yet. Tell him that he's making u feel uncomfortable and if he doesn't stop then he has no respect for u and u need to find someone else to hang out with

Answer 9

He is being a boy. The best thing you can do is ignore him. He needs to grow up and learn how to treat a girl. Next time he says somethng like that to you just laugh it off and if he trys to feel you up again slap his hands away and tell him you aren't that type of girl, you have PLENTY of time for that.

Answer 10

If he's giving you unwanted attention, that's sexual harassment. Either tell him to leave you the hell alone, or go tell a teacher, your parents, or better yet, HIS parents.

That sort of behaviour isn't appropriate, not at 14 and not at 24, 34 or even 74.

Answer 11

Do you have an older brother you can introduce him to? Sounds like it's time for this guy to learn some manners!