does any other girl get nothing out of sex? like do you like it, love it, or its just okay. bc honestly its not all what its cracked up to be for me. i like it, but not like everyone says its so great.
2007-10-25 07:21:17 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think i enjoy sex more than my bf does! You probably just have a partner that doesn't know what he's doing. If he's good then you'll enjoy it the whole time and get off more than once!
2007-10-25 07:29:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
With the right person you will be able to feel a strong connection and experience some pleasurable intimacy. That feeling may not come with just any ole body. Some girls get a lot of out sex and others don't because it depends on the person you are with.
2007-10-25 14:49:01 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me it depends on what kind of sex it is. Sometimes the actual deed dosent do it for me i need some side action. But with the right person OMG!!!!!! it's the best thing in the world. Try it with someone else if its a guy ur with can't blaim ya for not lovin it. They just don't know anything about what a girls want or needs. explore because they just aint doin it right
2007-10-25 14:29:45 · answer #3 · answered by cookingstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of it depends on the guy you are with and how comfortable you are with your own sexuality..
With my first, it was boring and I got nothing out of it.
With the guy I am with now, it is great and I don't think it could get any better.
Main thing is I got more confident and ask for what I want and make sure my partner knows the things I enjoy.
2007-10-25 14:25:51 · answer #4 · answered by Mel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is great specially if you love each other... There should always be feelings, love, affection and attraction.. i guess you get nothing out of it if it's just plain sex with no emotions involved...
2007-10-25 14:27:14 · answer #5 · answered by Hwang_Jini21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The obvious answer here would be "You're not doing it right."
However, there are lots of reasons why sex wouldn't be particularly pleasurable, both having to do with physiology (stimulating wrong nerves or stimulating them badly) and psychology (thinking that it is bad so you can't get pleasure out of it).
Have you tried pleasuring yourself? Have you tried a different partner?
2007-10-25 14:25:08 · answer #6 · answered by Elana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i love sex when it is done the right way when you have someone looking out for your needs and not just their own sit your man down and tell him how you feel about the sex you two have and maybe it will get better for you if not theres always masturbation.
2007-10-25 14:33:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I enjoy it. A lot.
To get enjoyment out of it, you have to learn about yourself, what you like, and how to give yourself pleasure. Then you have to be open and comfortable with your partner, and allow yourself to be "in the moment". Don't be afraid to say "faster", "slower", "harder", "softer", or whatever's appropriate. If you know what you like, then you'll be able to tell your partner what to do. "Oh, god! A little left!" does wonders.
Be comfortable with you, and it can be a very, very enjoyable experience.
2007-10-25 14:28:34 · answer #8 · answered by Becka Gal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's great for me. Honestly I've never known a woman to not like it. Unless you've never got ton an orgasm. Have you?
2007-10-25 14:28:39 · answer #9 · answered by Terri A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you been able to have an orgasm? That makes all the difference in the world. I love sex and I love my orgasms.
2007-10-25 14:24:39 · answer #10 · answered by ameeker 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋