so here the thing. Im going to this club on friday and im going with my ex. I still love him. Not sure how he feels about me. He did threaten to come get from my new guys house (we are not boyfriend girlfriend) because I was not home when he showed up there. He left an angry message on his cell telling me I better get home. That was the next morning. Now here is my question. I like this new guy but I have not heard from him since last friday when he got out of jail. He said I could stay there after I got done with the club. But since I have not heard from him Im not sure whats goin on. I want to know who should I go home with at the end of the night. I love my ex and I like that other guy. What should I do?
2007-10-25 06:24:57 · 15 answers · asked by angel_une 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should reevaluate the relationship with your ex before getting involved with another guy. It sounds like you still have feelings for your ex. You have to ask yourself why did you and your ex break up? Is it salvageable? If not then move on and start with a clean slate. But, you still love your ex so stick with him until you figure out if you can make it.
Hope this helps. Good Luck!
2007-10-25 06:32:16 · answer #1 · answered by Gwen27 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do yourself a favor, go home with yourself. Step back for a few days, get some perspective on this whole thing. As long as your ex is still a part of your life, than life doesn't move on. If this new guy knows you still talk to your ex, then he won't want to be in your life, see things from his point. Why would he want to take a chance on a relationship with some one when there is a chance they will leave them for their ex. My opinion, not saying you have to do it, but spend some time with yourself. If it's going to happen with this new guy it will, as long as you give things a chance to move in that direction. I went through something similair, I finally made the active decision to move on from my ex, and with in a few months of being myself, I found my girl I am with now, and life couldn't be any sweeter. Let the natural things in life happen, when you least expect it, you will be shown the way.
2007-10-25 13:36:03 · answer #2 · answered by devil6string 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, what great options..."Should I go home with my ex that leaves angry messages telling me what to do and where to be when he's not my boyfriend anymore, or should I go back to the guys house that just got out of jail and isnt calling me?" Are you serious?
2007-10-25 13:28:40 · answer #3 · answered by shamrock girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your ex sounds very controlling. Why are you letting his opinion affect how you run your life if you two aren't seeing each other anymore? It shouldn't matter what he thinks you should and should not do. Why are you even going places with him? It sounds like you don't want to be without him but I don't see why because it sounds like he's the father type instead of a boyfriend....I would be careful with that.
2007-10-25 13:28:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay home-- they both sound like more baggage and problems than I would want to deal with--
Then go find a guy that isn't controlling or has been or ever will be in jail...
2007-10-25 13:31:29 · answer #5 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say, if you don't have any intentions for you to extend your friendship towards a a relationship with your ex, then I wouldn't go home with him. Now, this other guy you haven't spoke with, what would be the point in going to his home?
Do you not have your own home? Why do you feel you have to go home with any of them, why not just go home and forget them both?
2007-10-25 13:31:39 · answer #6 · answered by Unbreakable Me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to find a new guy! Your ex is angry and yelling at you and this new guy is in jail??? Find yourself a new guy at that club!
2007-10-25 13:29:28 · answer #7 · answered by *Almost ready* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with your ex.. and only because this other guy hasn't called you and you don't know what he's up to.. so keep it safe and go with your ex.. this guys just got out of jail.. he is on a rampage for doing everything and whatever.. right now you are mostlikely not his priority
2007-10-25 13:29:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so...the new guy just got out of jail and your ex is a control freak. i say go home with yourself....learn to love yourself and raise your standards.....
2007-10-25 13:29:57 · answer #9 · answered by emadoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All sounds a bit confusing to me. Let me make it easy for you, dump them both and come home with me
2007-10-25 13:37:27 · answer #10 · answered by 00000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋