I have an evening wedding to go to in a week and I don't know if the dress I'm going to wear will be appropriate. It's a dark teal gown with spaghetti straps. Is it okay as a guest to wear a gown/floor length dress or is that reserved just for bridesmaids? My fiancee is one of the groomsmen and the bridesmaids are wearing silver. The wedding and reception will be held at a very elegant estate so I know it's formal but I don't want to be the odd one out if it turns out I'm overdoing it.
Photo of the dress:
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2007-10-25 06:23:38 · 22 answers · asked by Marceline 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
That dress is BEAUTIFUL and totally appropriate
2007-10-25 06:29:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's a very formal sounding wedding. Sounds like you'd be dressed very appropriately.
I did the same thing-my fiance's brother was getting married with a reception at the Ritz in Battery Park, Manhattan, and I wore a strapless floor length blue gown with a wrap-I was dressed totally appropriately. So long as you don't wear something fancier than the bride, you're fine. Enjoy the chance to get a bit more glammed up than normal! :)
2007-10-26 10:07:55 · answer #2 · answered by Constellation 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will tellyou the truth.
Unless the invitation clearty states : BLACK TIE, then do not wear that dress.
Don't get me wrong, the dress is totally gorgeaus and I love it, but evening gows like that are reserved for black tie affairs and the red carpet, not a wedding.
In a very formal wedding I attended in Boston last summer, with the creme de la creme invited, on a very exclusive venue, people wore tea lenght dresses (designer of course). The crowd was in their late 20's , so they were not old hags.
I considered getting a dress similar to yours and I glad that I didn't, otherwise I would have been out of place. No one had long dresses other than the bridemaids, I tried some gowns at Nordstrom, very nice Mary L Couture and Nicole Miller, love them! but definetly over the top for a wedding. I didn't want to draw attention to my self, so I opted for a very elegant mid-calf dress instead and I'm so very glad that I did.
Lovely gown, better for a beauty pageant or prom.
Good luck
2007-10-25 14:31:45 · answer #3 · answered by Blunt 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The length is very formal for a wedding, but the color and style are not, so overall I would assume it is appropriate due to the formality and location of the event. It is a beautiful dress, I would suggest a very simple loose chingon or simply leaving your hair down to keep the formality down, as well as staying away form very high heels, and excessive jewlery and makeup. This will keep your overall look very appropriate, and even if the dress does turn out to be a little more formal than others, your overall presentation will look completely appropriate for the occasion. You must remember, there will be those who wear a shorter, less formal and more of a party dress, but will have fancy jewelery, hair, and makeup which will make them look more formal even though their dress may be less formal. I would also suggest sending this pic to the bride and asking her opinion. Most people avoid this, but she will probably appreciate you wanting to be appropriate for the situation. As long as you don't hound her until she answers you, this is completely appropriate and the best way to find out what is best. I am getting married in February and I would completely welcome any questions about attire. Good luck, have fun!
2007-10-25 13:40:17 · answer #4 · answered by tink 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think I have to agree that unless it is supposed to be very formal that dress would not be right. I would call the bride or the bride's or groom's mother and inquire if you should be wearing a floor length dress or cocktail length. Also IMHO I think it is a bit too revealing for a wedding. It is a very beautiful dress though but not what I would think is right for a wedding.
2007-10-25 14:54:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a very beautiful dress. If it is a very formal affair, I imagine other women will wear floor length dresses also. See if you can talk to one of the bridesmaids and ask their opinion. They will know the degree of formality.
2007-10-25 14:54:57 · answer #6 · answered by vaya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you look better than the bride this is a major No No!
Dress up have fun. But , Ask the maid of honour That is her job, after all. You also want to match your husband's attire. So go for the gusto if you get an okay from the Maid of Honour.
2007-10-29 12:18:37 · answer #7 · answered by Marla ™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since it is in a coulour totally different than the bridesmaids, it's fine.
You can wear a floor length dress to an evening wedding, you just need to avoid appearing to add yourself to the wedding party.
2007-10-25 13:45:26 · answer #8 · answered by UppityBroad68 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can, as it is an evening formal wedding, especially that your fiancee is in the bridal party. Just fine. Bring a shawl or a coverup like a balero jacket that compliments the dress.
2007-10-25 16:57:26 · answer #9 · answered by cardgirl2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since the wedding is in the evening and at an elegant estate, I see nothing wrong with this dress. It's very pretty by the way. Accessorize with a small clutch bag and enjoy!
2007-10-25 13:27:39 · answer #10 · answered by kja63 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think you have successfully straddled the line btwn too fancy and not fancy enough. the dress is long, but it isn't black so it should fit right in. if you are still a little leery, ask any other female guests that you know what they plan to wear. i think for a formal, night wedding, you wouldn't want to go any more relaxed than this.
2007-10-25 18:00:38 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋