This guy I have REALLY liked for a long time, he has never had a girlfriend or kissed a girl before. I know this is cheap, one night we flirted while we were drunk. He was only a little bit, I was alot more. My pals there knew I still liked him so they encouraged us and kept trying to make us touch each other, he kept subtlely trying to touch me and even asked me if I thought he was attractive. He held doors open for me and such. He left me 2 voicemails later one saying "I hope you got back to your room ok Ill see you or IM you" and he did he imed me the next morning and he kept asking me questions about how I was and my hangover and stuff. He also wrote on my Facebook wall. Hes never done any of these things before, I thought they were good signs, I was told a guy would never say those things if he didnt like you. The day after at practice he joined the crowd
2007-10-25 06:19:09 · 6 answers · asked by Georgia G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and said Hi How are U, I thought this was a good sign. I knew he wouldnt make a move because hes so shy. Later he started acting kinda akward around me, it could have been my imagination since hes an awkward kind of boy. I thought it might be because he liked me. Well my friend who was there that night who is close friends with him said "He doesnt have feelings for you, its as simple as that. A 1000 people there that night constantly badgered him about you afterwards, that didnt help a huge amount. He never said anything about messages. hes stupid trust me, didnt mean anything by it prob wondered why you were acting funny, hed like to be friends though" Although the next morning whe my crush talked to me he never brought that up. was sad but held onto the hope that hes so shy that he wouldnt tell his friends how he actually felt about me. He keeps saying hi to me. We're in band together and sometimes when Im trying to ignore him and it seems like hes ignoring me he randomly says hi.
2007-10-25 06:19:36 · update #1
Well I found out that he now knows what my friend told me, and isnt mad at him for telling me. so now its really hit me he doesnt like me, unless hes continued to lie. So I think he keeps saying hi because he wants no hard feelings and feels bad for me? Ive noticed he seems kinda sad around me, maybe its just awkwardness.My friend who told me also meddled alot and he kept saying he was sorry and I said it wouldnt have made a difference if u hadnt and he said maybe not. I feel like my immature friends ruined everything. and no my friend didnt lie to me! so is it done with? or is he just humiliated people annoyed him and lied? but he didnt tell his BFF so I think he really doesnt. I wish he would not talk 2 me if he didnt like me back.
2007-10-25 06:20:29 · update #2
he dont like you
2007-10-25 06:22:33 · answer #1 · answered by The M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart he likes you. The best thing for you to do is just to ask him. Even the most shy person will adimit to the person they like if asked by that person. Those other people seem to have some kind of agenda but don't concern yourself with that. If you really like this guy then you will have to go out on a limb. As you said he's a shy person so you will have to do alot of work. But yes, he definately likes you! Good luck with everything!
2007-10-25 13:35:10 · answer #2 · answered by resurrected 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try asking him. Let him know that you feel like he's giving you mixed signals and that you would just like to know so that you can move forward. Stay friends if you can but the truth can only come from him not your friends or his friends. Just ask him.
2007-10-25 13:29:57 · answer #3 · answered by lola1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lot of useless info there--"I wish he would talk to me"--
Go talk to him..
Don't listen to other people, they have agendas you can't even guess at....
2007-10-25 13:25:23 · answer #4 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he obviously likes you, take a look at what you know from him, dont buy into what everyone else says.
2007-10-25 13:22:44 · answer #5 · answered by Christopher R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did anyone really read through the entire 'details'?
2007-10-25 13:22:43 · answer #6 · answered by KJ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋