Well, it was actually a couple of years ago. I had asked her out online, and a couple days later she sent someone to tell me no. Looking back I can see why she said no (I definitely wasn't the "coolest" guy), but now I don't know where I stand. She's nice to me wherever, or whenever we work together in class and stuff, we laugh a bit, but we don't really talk the way friends should, in or out of class. And now I'm beginning to feel like she could be interested in me, but I really don't know. I've thought over it a lot but I need some outside opinions. please answer
2007-10-25 06:18:58 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Since then I've realized asking her out online was the dumbest, lamest, gutless way to ask her out, and she and I are in the same science class, and the way she talks, the way she does and doesn't look at me, make me feel like there's a serious possibility!!! It's driving me crazy..
2007-10-25 06:40:48 · update #1
Its a bad move to ask a girl out online, "in person" is a better way to ask. You might try again in person and if she says no, ask her very politely why. Once I asked a girl out on a date, and she said no, but she really wanted to go out but not on the date I suggested. Its hard to judge a no answer without an explanation. Be persistent, but also be polite.
2007-10-25 06:22:37 · answer #1 · answered by Steve C 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Don't just ask her out it may ruin the moment, wait and see where it goes, don't jump on it at the first signs, that tends to push some girls away. TAKE IT SLOW
2007-10-25 06:24:06 · answer #2 · answered by memechu 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
shes out of your comfort zone... you'll just be faking it... just cause shes pretty dosen't mean she is the best person for you... find a girl who you can be yourself around...
2007-10-25 06:22:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋