so i have known this person since oct 5th, we had sexual encounters and he use to call me everyday just to see how i was doing. Well last friday i stayed at his house until 4 am i had to be at work at 9, so i left he said to me while i was getting in the car to call him to make sure i got home safely, i said i will be ok go get some sleep. Well since that day i havent heard from him since, i called him yesterday to see what was up and why he hasnt called me, i said i didnt think friends did that to one another and he just started laughing and said he would call me later and we can talk, but last night no call no nothing. I am going to assume he has a lady friend and i am ok with that i dont want to come between them to, but how can he go from everyday calling me to not even caring to talk to me. Shall i try and call him again or leave the ball is his court, and what is the reason for ignoring me? And btw hes over 25 lol
2007-10-25 05:59:57 · 8 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he has a lady, you should not be OK with that.
For one thing, it's not cool to his girl, you know what I mean. And also, if you are right about there being another girl, didn't that tell you something about him, when he slept with you? For one thing you should be treated better than this, you sound like a honest girl, looking for what she can get. Slow down the right one will show up, I promise. Never settle for less, only settle for what you deserve. HAPPINESS!:) GOOD LUCK!
2007-10-25 06:12:27 · answer #1 · answered by Shawnee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok well, I think that he has found him a girlfriend or something. But just give him some space for a bit. Try calling him back and see what he says. Let him know how you feel and don't let him tell you that he'll call you back later cause the chances of him calling back are little. How old are you? If he's over 25 then how old r u? That's the reason that I am wondering but anyways, just call and talk to him about how you are feeling.
2007-10-25 13:04:59 · answer #2 · answered by criswellmary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He thinks he has you where he wants you, and that is to say, he can call you when he wants something, and we all know what that is. I can't tell you what to do, but I would not bother calling him, make him be the one to call you, and pursue you, and thins is about the only time I will ever condone this, brush the guy off. Return the favor, get him where you want him, then brush him off like nothing. When he calls again, and he will, explain to him why you did it. It could be a life changing lesson, or chaulk it up to karma. Either way, no one should treat someone like that, and if you atleast offer an explanation on why you did it to him, it puts you back in the good graces of karma.
2007-10-25 13:20:17 · answer #3 · answered by devil6string 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well C.S. sounds like he reached his goal of having his way with you and now you might not hear from him again. Sorry but that is the way that some guys (and ladies) operate. Would have been nice of him to have the balls to let you know that he was just looking at you as a bedspread but he was probably aware that wouldn't be a very good line to use.
2007-10-25 13:05:23 · answer #4 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it is kidna strange, I say u leave him alone for another day or 2. See if he calls or not, if he doesnt, he's no longer interested. No need to dwell over him if u guys werent too serious.
2007-10-25 13:06:03 · answer #5 · answered by toomuchgame441 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one is going to answer this question. It's too...... You'll get the " he's just not that into you" or what ever, I would love an honest answer to your question as well.
2007-10-25 13:07:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i d leave it to him...try to get on with your own things. and forget about it.... maybe he just wanted a fling. then if he does contact you and you are happy about it it will be a bonus wont it?.....but dont hold your breath.
good luck.
2007-10-25 13:13:00 · answer #7 · answered by sasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He got what he wanted- probably GF was out of town...and now he's done with you..
2007-10-25 13:11:07 · answer #8 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋