2007-10-25 05:36:57 · 11 answers · asked by LUCKY3 6 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
MYTHOLOGICAL BEAST: “It means that I will do what I can to help you become self-realized without sacrificing my own self-realization.”
ΩLOVEOFMYLIFEΩ: “It’s a word with covenant, obligation, worth, and responsibility.”
NBM: “A permanent commitment to their well-being,”
NEOPHYTE: “I never use the word lightly. Love has no degrees, no expectations.”
2007-10-27 04:18:27 · update #1
Your word is always your bond. When you tell somone that you love them, that means now and forever or your word is not anygood. If your word is not any good then what good are you?
2007-10-25 12:21:55 · answer #1 · answered by David T 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh, this is a good one. The secret to this is understanding what a person means when they say "I Love You". The word "love" has lots of definitions, but they all really just boil down to "I want you to be part of my life". This is true if you love a relative, a friend, a significant other, or even ice cream.
When we say it to a significant other, then there is a presumption that you also want that other person to be happy. This is misleading because there is an entire continuum of how much people are willing to do to make that other person happy. What are you willing to give up? Your job? Your city? Your religion? Your dreams? Nothing at all? For each person, the answer lies somewhere in there.
For me, when I say it, it means that I will do what I can to help you become self-realized without sacrificing my own self-realization. If you require me to sacrifice my own self-realization, then I have to consider you to not have my best interest in mind, and I have to pull back. There are no contracts in love, but we do have to have minimum standards.
However, I don't make the mistake of thinking that other people are this circumspect when they use those words.
p.s.The link below is to a 3-part podcast. The bit that best describes my philosophy on this is at about 12 minutes 20 seconds into it.
2007-10-25 05:39:58 · answer #2 · answered by Mythological Beast 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is unchangeable or it was never love. If in regard to another, it is a permanent commitment to their well-being, self-actualization/realization. EVEN if that requires ending a relationship with them for their own good.
2007-10-26 06:48:27 · answer #3 · answered by MysticMaze 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I say I love you I mean it, I never use the word lightly. When I love you there is nothing you could ever do that will change that, although some actions on your part may make my expression of that love to be different. Let's use my kids as an example. I will always love them & nothing will change that fact. Yet, as they grew up some of their actions required me to change my behavior toward them because I loved them & wanted what was best for them. They may not have always understood, but I was willing to risk their misunderstanding to do the right thing for them. I loved them enough to do what was best for them, even if it meant they hated me for the rest of my life. It really is not any different with any one we love. Love has no degrees, no expectations, & is always concerned with the person we love at least as much as we are concerned with ourselves, otherwise it is not love & something else entirely. We are human, we make mistakes, & will screw up from time to time, some times we even trash our cage severly, but we love the ones we love anyway. Sometimes I may even be forced to love you from a distance because it is what is best for both of us,but the fact that I love you does not change. Thanks for a great Q.
(((HUG)))
2007-10-26 06:53:55 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
lucky3, I love you, now and forever...
*baffling lashes and blowing kisses
that's why that word is sacred, its a word with covenant. obligation, worth, and responsibility. personally speaking, its hard for me to fall out, i keep holding on as much as i can, but loving isn't just about my personal happiness, if my love is way out of line, self centered and irrational, it would be the best time for some reality check for me, or else that i love you word would be nothing but cold coffee on Ur bfast table.
2007-10-25 05:46:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
definite, my little baby consistently try this enormously at cases while i've got faith down...as quickly as I come homestead weary and all under pressure out from artwork, he merely seems into my eyes and supply me a heat welcome hug... one time i had this very massive issue, we've been in mattress approximately to sleep and before he mentioned goodnight, he regarded at me...he touched my cheek and ran it to my eyes, he became into checking for tears...i mentioned mama is high quality, we could sleep. then he kissed me and hug me tightly. he mentioned not something, yet what he did became into so helpful, made me found out that no count how many cases identity fall, no count how massive the issue is, my little boy will consistently be there to love me and do away with all my burdens.
2016-12-15 08:52:31 · answer #6 · answered by vallee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if Love is live, it will be always in present time, present day and present moment. when tomorrow comes , it will be Today only and I Love You , will will be in today only. if you want to ensure that Tomorrow, try telling I will Love You Tomorrow. and look how silly it looks the person may runaway on hearing this. !!
2007-10-25 06:00:20 · answer #7 · answered by krishprud@yahoo.co.in_KISHORLAL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is not a matter to play with.....when you [eh, well, me] are [am]saying this, you have TO MEAN it from all your heart! So, In my opinion the thus created bond..is stronger than concrete...like granite, and so to speak, tomorrow the bond is unchanged. I started to affirm very very hard this two magic words....so they don't come easy out of my mouth...
2007-10-25 08:01:51 · answer #8 · answered by farhire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i tell someone that i love them , i ! mean it the next day to ps what are you eating or what is on your face.
2007-10-25 11:03:20 · answer #9 · answered by kevin p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not at all, if i say i love you to day i will love you tomorrow, and after tomorrow....and for ever.... i Love you truly...not for date...of some other relation.......
2007-10-25 10:24:32 · answer #10 · answered by siraj1466 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋