What's the Christian view of sexual fetishism and roleplay? Is it viewed as sinful, or is it okay? Thanks in advance.
2007-10-25 02:50:16 · 15 answers · asked by theninjaslayer 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
so should I be the pizza delivery man this time, or am I the criminal who is about to get strip searched by the bad cop?
2007-10-25 02:52:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 3⤋
Like someone else mentioned. It's allowed as long as it's between the two of you. You are to find delight with one another. Despite what other people think about Christians they are allowed and suppose to enjoy sex with one another (married). God is not opposed to them enjoying one another sexually. Make sure you are respectful of one another and all should be ok.
2007-10-25 03:24:51 · answer #2 · answered by Lisa2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it dehumanizes your spouse, brings a third party into the marriage bed (this would include pornography), or violates the sacred vow of fidelity between the married partners, then it is wrong/sinful.
I don't see how one can indulge in a sexual fetish without dehumanizing one's partner. And role play is basically an adulterous fantasy -- isn't making love with your real spouse good enough? Why do you have to turn your spouse into somebody else to get turned on?
2007-10-25 03:12:47 · answer #3 · answered by sparki777 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I'd have to answer saying that as long as it's a male-female couple married legally with a marriage license as well as married in the church that whatever they choose to do in the marriage bed is OK.
Scripture doesn't specifically address fetishes and role playing but does tell us to take delight in each other within marriage.
2007-10-25 02:59:31 · answer #4 · answered by thefinalresult 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Hebrews 13:4
Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.
Whatever you and your wife want to do is fine with God, as long as it is between you and your wife ONLY! No third parties, even if you are both in agreement. That means that if she wants to be the naughty nurse and you the drugged patient that needs an enema then go for it if that is your thing.
2007-10-25 02:57:48 · answer #5 · answered by MrMyers 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
It depends. If you are thinking of someone else while role playing or desiring another person, not your spouse, then you are using your spouse in a way that is not loving and giving.
Sex is a gift from God. It is not about using your spouse to fulfill your physical desires. We should never "use" each other, a marriage vow does not permit this.
If you and your spouse are completely giving, open to life, open to God in all sexual contact with each other then what type of sex that brings is up to you. But I can't imagine that role playing etc. would be the same if you opened your sexuality to God.
2007-10-25 02:58:27 · answer #6 · answered by Misty 7 · 2⤊ 4⤋
Technically any consensual sex between a husband and a wife is fine. Some groups tend to limit sex to just for procreation, or assume that the missionary position is right/normal because it's the only thing they know, but this is not supported/mentioned in the Bible.
2007-10-25 02:54:12 · answer #7 · answered by Pirate AM™ 7 · 5⤊ 3⤋
Check the New Testament. Elvira 1:69.
Thou shalt adorn thyself with the tanned hides of animals and smite thy partner with a bundle of reeds.
2007-10-25 02:58:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
The woman plays Marry and the Man plays Joesph
2007-10-25 02:55:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 3⤋
What 2 married folks (errm, married to each other that is!) do in the privacy of their bedroom is not only okay, but encouraged!
Just like with any part of society, as long as no one is getting hurt or abused or made to feel ashamed of themselves, what people do in private is none of our business.
2007-10-25 02:54:08 · answer #10 · answered by arewethereyet 7 · 6⤊ 3⤋