Reoccuring dreams of Cheating Boyfriend?

Question

I need to know what this means and don't tell me that maybe my boyfriend is really cheating on me bc that is not the case. We have been loyal to eachother from day one. I have been cheated on by ex's and maybe I have built a wall for fear of being cheated on again: here is the dream...

I catch my bf cheating on me with random girls,sometimes girls I know and trusted (or didn't trust so much).When I catch him cheating (kissing, groping, touching, sex),I run away in anger or sadness.He doesn't seem to care or wanna explain himself.He laughs and continues to do it. I usually end up beating the crap outta the chic he is with :) I break up with him, of course,and he continues to hang around me or my house. I try ignoring him and moving on,but its hard when he's around all the time.
I love my bf and I trust him completely.This dream has to mean something else.They are so badly hurting me it is hard to concentrate in school.Help me please!

My reference toward "girls" was just a description of who he was cheating on me with in my dream. My apologies chicky poo, next time I'll be more careful and put "women" instead!

By the way, why can't a girl have a relationship and go to "college" at the same time without ppl commenting about having to only concentrate on school? This has been said to me twice, and quite frankly my dear, I'm sick of hearing it. Get a boyfriend or don't give advice to those who are happy!

Answer 1

Dreams can come from so many places. It could be that you saw a movie where a boyfriend cheated and then in your subconcious became worried. I think it could also be that you have other fears about the relationship and that would be a way out - becuase you say that you would of course break up with him if it happened. Lastly - it could have something to do with the girls your catch him with. THey are girls you know and trust so maybe it's all about your lacking trust in them as friends. It sounds like you completely trust him and know that there's no cheating involved - so try not to worry about it and be happy with the relationship.

Answer 2

I think you may just be insecure due to the past and you're afraid of your bf cheating on you. Don't stress yourself out too much on the dream itself, don't let it get to you in that way and let it affect your school work. I know everything is always easier said than done. But it definately doesn't mean your bf is cheating on you :)

Answer 3

What most don't know, is that we are all people in our dreams acting out our insecurities. It is rarely about someone else, and if it is, those border on being premonition dreams.

Your dream tells me that you are wrestling inside of yourself, a part of you feels like you are abandoning yourself in favor of a relationship.

Maybe, as in love as you may be, you are needing a little more time for yourself or girlfriends?

Answer 4

It is probably just yourself being insecure, just remind yourself he is loyal, maybe they won't go away but you can just comfort yourself or have him do it for you.Either that or you can trust your instincts and just be a little discreet but try to remove yourself from the situation if anything suspicious starts going on(Lack of communication, doesn't keep promises etc.)

Answer 5

It means you are worried he might cheat on you, because you have had bad experiences of this kind in the past. You may say you trust him, but this is what you consciously feel, your subconscious is insecure.

Answer 6

I think it is just your insecurities about the possiblity of that happening, especially when it has happened in the past with other bfs.

Answer 7

doesnt particularly mean hes cheating. maybe you just have insecurities because ex boyfs have cheated on you in the past.

Answer 8

Key word "girls" .... grow up maybe? You have a whole lifetime to get a relationship, get your school and career set first.. rest will fall into place..

Answer 9

Ditch the dick.