help i do love him but am not in love with him can't leave him we have kids and i would have nowhere to go i am thinking about asking him to move into back room? I need real answers not any jerks giving there 2 cents thank you to all
2007-10-25 01:17:53 · 9 answers · asked by rradboys 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
he gets his med from a pain mang. doc.
Claire i put this on here for some spiritual help why are you on here if you cant give some guidance
2007-10-25 01:28:48 · update #1
some of you cant read i need some advice i don't need for you to tell me i am bad i am not just because i have meds dose not make me bad i have cancer. you jerk off i also work 2 jobs
2007-10-25 01:34:43 · update #2
He needs help. Asking him to move out is a good start for your kids sake, but he needs to get into rehab, right now. This isn't something that can wait another day, this is something you have to talk to him about today. 120 pills in 10 days and stealing medication is well beyond the stage of "maybe he'll get better". Your kids are depending on you.
2007-10-25 01:21:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
There's not much you can do until he's willing to change. I think that moving him into a back room is a good idea for two reasons: it reduces the kids' exposure to his problem, and also shows him that there are consequences for his actions. Just make sure that you unobtrusively check up on him to make sure he's not overdosing. He should probably also have his liver checked regularly. (I'm assuming that sending him to a hospital or leaving him is simply not an option for you.)
I hope things improve for you soon.
You also might want to post this under "Health" to get more informed opinions.
2007-10-25 01:24:29 · answer #2 · answered by Cathy 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Both of you need help and you need to be the first one to get it for yourself
you are not stuck you are playing a victim role like you are powerless to change
this love and in love crap is BS you made a choice and now you have children
you can screw up your life but you have no right to screw up there's
Be a Big Girl and Do the right thing fix yourself and all will be well
2007-10-25 01:25:58 · answer #3 · answered by mmmkay_us 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This has absolutely nothing to do with religion or spirituality. He needs medical help and advice.
*** Do you think you're going to make him better? Other than seeing a drug counseller, he isnt. He can still get help from a medical professional for an addiction to percscription meds.
2007-10-25 01:23:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I would tell him to get help for his drug addiction today. If he does not I would start making plans to leave even if it meant I had to go on welfare for awhile. He is a bad role model for your children and moving him into the back room will never help. Be strong for your children. Later in their lives they will respect you for it.
2007-10-25 01:29:29 · answer #5 · answered by Ruth 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He, and you, need professional help. You are enabling him to continue with his drug problem, and you also need to get assistance for yourself, to be able to handle the emotional stress. Try a Narcotics Anonymous Chapter, or AA, for help.
2007-10-25 01:23:01 · answer #6 · answered by Beau R 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I'm so sorry about that! Well, the best thing for you and him would be to get some medical help.
:(
2007-10-25 01:24:17 · answer #7 · answered by Eggroll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs intervention, thats how you can help!
2007-10-25 01:22:07 · answer #8 · answered by Gyspy Soul 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
try intervention...he needs some serious help..
2007-10-25 01:25:14 · answer #9 · answered by madsmaha1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋