over the summer my girlfriend and i went back to being friends because we couldnt spend much time together since we both didnt have cars. this week a co-worker of mine told me that she had another boyfriend so i asked her about it and she admitted to it. she said she's been with him for about a week . i asked her what she likes about him she said he's nice and she likes nice guys. she said he's quiet too. she said he looks okay. but she didnt sound the least bit excited about him. she told me how she called him by her ex-boyfriends name and he got all mad but she didnt care. i asked her if she still has feelings for me she didnt want to answer me. even after telling me all this she was trying to get me to work at her job and she was trying to set up a date with me.i'm confused becuz i dont kno if she's serious about him or if she's just trying to make me jealous or get back at me. after all, last week she told me she thought i had another girlfriend. any ideas of what she's up to
2007-10-25 00:48:41 · 18 answers · asked by regis s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
keep in mind she does have a history of playing games with and testing me because im the first guy she couldnt control and im the firs guy who ever left HER confused. im also the first guy who ever broke up with her.when i asked her how she felt about me, she said she didnt want to say yes and hold me back, but she didnt want to say no. if she didnt have feelings for me she would have just said no. i asked her what she liked about me she said everything. she said im so different from any guy she's ever been with and we dont have to go on dates just to have fun cuz she has fun jus being around me. she said how when she thinks about me its special...so is she with him seriously or is this just another one of her tests? she started getting quiet when i mentioned how many girls are trying to get with me. what should i expect from her? just last week she was trying to come see me at my job and asking me if she will ever see me again any time soon
2007-10-25 00:50:16 · update #1
keep in mind she does have a history of playing games with and testing me because im the first guy she couldnt control and im the firs guy who ever left HER confused. im also the first guy who ever broke up with her.when i asked her how she felt about me, she said she didnt want to say yes and hold me back, but she didnt want to say no. if she didnt have feelings for me she would have just said no. i asked her what she liked about me she said everything. she said im so different from any guy she's ever been with and we dont have to go on dates just to have fun cuz she has fun jus being around me. she said how when she thinks about me its special...so is she with him seriously or is this just another one of her tests? she started getting quiet when i mentioned how many girls are trying to get with me. what should i expect from her? just last week she was trying to come see me at my job and asking me if she will ever see me again any time soon
2007-10-25 00:50:20 · update #2
shes playing a game with you. I used to do the same thing but I have changed since i was a teen!
2007-10-25 00:54:04 · answer #1 · answered by rhindybucco2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You see to be very proud of yourself being the first guy to get her confused, the first guy to break up with her, the first guy to be a pain in the neck. You are a total loss. Dont you have anything good about you that people will remember you for. And you still want this girl to love you and be your friend. Leave her alone, she must have found someone really cool and intelligent and someone who loves her and is not negative like you.
2007-10-25 07:55:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone can understand this... she is playing games; the second you give her to much attention she is going to back off. The other guy is a rebound to get over you... just relax, hangout with her and take it easy. If you really want her to chase you ask her out by saying "do you want to go this weekend; it will have to be Friday because I have plans for Saturday night..." she is going to be so curious about your plans she is going to ask. Tell her that you have a blind date with this girl your friend hook you up with. She will be so jealous and she will try to win you back Friday night so that you break off the date on Saturday night. Have fun. Best of luck.
2007-10-25 08:07:58 · answer #3 · answered by L A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ooo....tough question. Truthfully...it sounds like shes NOT over you, but she's TRYING to be. "Being friends" was probably a tough transition for her. In a process of trying to comfort herself, it sounds like she found someone to, in a way, "take your place". She's probably still trying very hard to be a good "friend". Hence the reason for attempting to set you up and work with you.
My advice....Play her silly little game. She's probably hoping that you'll be a good friend back and just let her "cope" the best way she knows how. By dating again and trying to think of you as JUST a friend.
Good luck!! I hope it all turns out ok.
2007-10-25 07:57:14 · answer #4 · answered by Ane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like she's testing. I've found someone like that normally had a hiccup as a child and test if someone still cares and loves them by playing these silly games. She can't help it believe me, but she'll grow out of it at some stage in her life.
I'd play cool if I were you. I'd tell her how I felt and carry on with my life until she comes to her senses (or not).
2007-10-25 07:56:09 · answer #5 · answered by Curious39 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm, yeah. She doesn't sound like much of a winner. It sounds like she likes attention and wants to have a couple of guys on the hook, just in case one loses interest in the games. In my experience, women who play games don't have any true deep feelings for anyone but themselves. If you don't think you can stay just a friend with her, then I'd say move on - cuz it doesn't sound like she would wait for anyone.
2007-10-25 07:54:52 · answer #6 · answered by Kickbutt S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is playing games with you.Do you know if there really is another guy? Does he live only in her head.She is playing the how much do you care for me ,make you jealous and find out game. There is no other guy.This is so immature. You need to dump her.Next thing she will tell you she is pregnant and its yours.You can't live you life with a liar and game player.
2007-10-25 07:59:34 · answer #7 · answered by lotteda717 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so confused with ur question. You need to shorten it and if ur not going to shorten it you need to stop using the text talk and use proper spelling and grammar so ppl can understand it.
Here's my advice from what I could understand of it all:
Don't get together with either of these ladies as everything is just going to end up a mess. Have a relationship with someone you could imagine yourself with for the rest of your life. Think to urself-"Can I invisage this women as my wife? Would i have children with her?"
2007-10-25 07:57:43 · answer #8 · answered by Sara F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like she is really playing a game with you and a good one at that. She wants you to think of only her and it is working. I think she is trying to move on but she doesn't want you to. She wants you to still be interested in her while she gets on with her life.
2007-10-25 08:03:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's seems like she wants to have everything. Even though she's told u that she likes that guy for wat ever reasons (that she may fine lacking in you or just telling you so it seems like she's okay) at the same time she likes you too. Because she can't choose either a or b it's causing you to stress out. She needs to get it straight wat she wants and it's selfish on her part to keep jumping back and fourth with her feelings with you. If this keeps up have a talk with her.
2007-10-25 07:57:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋