I received a text last night and after a short text convo and a 3hr telephone call. I'm curious as to what to do.
The love is still very much there and eventhough its been 4 months of hurt, I think it might be worth it.
Obviously we'd need to talk about what went wrong and we've agreed to do that already but I'd like to hear some serious thoughts and experiences about similar scenarios.
(For the record, she broke up with me as she was unsure what she wanted, it seems she desperately wants me back)
2007-10-24 23:32:39 · 27 answers · asked by Putting on the Foil 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Advice given to me- watch her. Actions speak louder than words. Does what she say match up with her actions? I am concerned with the word,(desperately). Words are important also. There is plenty of good advice here. More advice- Listen to what people say, then pick out what you want and throw the rest out.
2007-10-25 00:44:04 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My fiance and I broke up for about three months. There has also been a lot of hurt and anger, but at the end of the day, after being apart for so long, we realised what we meant to each other. We've been back together now for six months, and I won't say it has been easy, but we're getting there and appreciating each other more. If you love that person and if you BOTH are willing to everything in your power to make it work, I would say go for it. Good luck!
2007-10-25 06:42:45 · answer #2 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is totally up to you!! She left you and now seen what she is missing and wants you back, how do you know that a few months from now she won't feel the same and leave again? Point being I left my ex I felt that I needed to be free for a while live life, I got depressed and missed the company and I did still love him, we got back together good for a while then I fell in to that same attitude I need to get out live!! So I left for good it was wrong to do that to him he loved me very much and I loved him but it was just that time!! Now I am not saying she will leave again but you both need to really talk about why she left in the first place.... It may work out it may not but it is either find out or stay apart for good!! I guess I learned that you move forward!!
2007-10-25 06:39:51 · answer #3 · answered by Wendy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, if you love her that much. Give her one last chance if your past relationship with her was quite good. She lost herself so the chance you give should be cherished. First mistake is forgivable, if it ends again, then make your stand final. For now, don't hurt yourself by deny yourself the chance to find true love. Always remember, love is sweeter the second time around. Most relationships end and start a new because both parties only find out what they've been missing, when their partner is gone.
2007-10-25 06:40:18 · answer #4 · answered by Storm Shadow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to go with what you feel, no on can answer this question for you. If you love her, and you feel she was being honest with her reasoning for the break up... Then go for it.. In my own experience, it would depend on the circumstances in that ended the relationship... However, my philosophy on this is been there done that, I do not go backwards... If it did not work the first time, there is not a second time to re-live the pain. Much luck God bless****
2007-10-25 06:38:16 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did, then 2 years later the same thing happened and he left. Now 1 1/2 years later he is regretting it again, but I just don't think I could ever go through all the hurt again.
2007-10-25 06:42:56 · answer #6 · answered by Jo C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it sounds like she made a realy bad mistake and she regrets it..if u have both said u are going to talk about what went wrong then why are u actually askin this question..u say u think it might be worth it so what is actually the prob every body deserves a second chance so giv her one..the worst that can happen is her dumping u..so go for it
2007-10-25 06:42:20 · answer #7 · answered by F Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a exs a ex 4 a reason and never would i go back with mine but its up 2 u in the end
good luck with what u decide
2007-10-25 06:43:48 · answer #8 · answered by in love and its great 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt, if there was reason enough to split, then there will still be reason, seems like she wants you now, because she has nothing else, dont play second best or do you want to get hurt all over again
2007-10-25 06:40:35 · answer #9 · answered by SUE G online 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone deserves a second chance.
and providing it was a break-up that was forgivable, and nothing you'd want to throw back in each others faces every day....then go for it.
Good luck!
2007-10-25 07:50:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋