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I suffer from depression and I find it difficult to do anything. It's to the point where I don't even want to get out of bed. I don't want to use the word lazy, because I hate that word, but I am just getting worse and worse. I would appreciate advice and information.

2007-10-24 23:01:42 · 8 answers · asked by mao ying 3 in Health Mental Health

My thinking is like completely fogged. I can't concentrate and I can't understand what I say and what people say to me.

2007-10-24 23:08:50 · update #1

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It's very overwhelming. My hubby has the same problem. He's on 200mg zoloft. This was the biggest step for him. Going to a doctor and talking about his problem. We both pretended for a while that it didn't exist. It's a huge step.

One day he can be functioning with no signs of depression, then the next he just wakes up different. He can't explain it. He doesn't want to get out of bed or do anything. He can't stand lazy people either, but at the same time can't motivate himself to do anything. He ends up cross with himself because he can't seem to pull himself out of it. Sometimes it lasts 1 day, sometimes a week. Then all of a sudden he snaps out of it. These episodes are happening less and less the longer he seems to be taking his zoloft. he's been on zoloft now for about 3 years. We still don't get what triggers it. There doesn't seem to be anything. Now it happens once every couple of months that he has a really bad time. I'm hoping one day it won't happen at all.

Depression is a long hard road. On those days when you don't feel like doing anything, nothing or nobody can make a difference. Definately see someone and get some medication. it definately helps.

Don't beat yourself up about your bad days. Try to concentrate on the good days and with proper medication and support it will get better. My hubby hated himself for those days he couldn't get out of bed and support his family. Thankfully now, they are very rare days. There is hope if you get the help you need.

2007-10-25 00:07:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

I'm so sorry to hear about your problem- that sounds like a lot to deal with. I'm an insurance agent- are you able to go after the at-fault party? You don't sound like you're at fault so your insurance company (I'm assuming you had insurance) should be able to go after the other party for you... For your mental health issues- you seriously need time to relax and get feeling PHYSICALLY better before you can mentally get there. Maybe even a few sessions with a therapist?? Do you have family you can turn to - or any close friends? I'm so sorry for your problem- good luck to you!

2016-04-10 04:07:44 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Signs and symptoms
Two hallmarks of depression — symptoms key to establishing a diagnosis — are:

Loss of interest in normal daily activities. You lose interest in or pleasure from activities that you used to enjoy.
Depressed mood. You feel sad, helpless or hopeless, and may have crying spells.
In addition, for a doctor or other health professional to diagnose depression, most of the following signs and symptoms also must be present for at least two weeks.

Sleep disturbances. Sleeping too much or having problems sleeping can be a sign you're depressed. Waking in the middle of the night or early in the morning and not being able to get back to sleep are typical.
Impaired thinking or concentration. You may have trouble concentrating or making decisions and have problems with memory.
Changes in weight. An increased or reduced appetite and unexplained weight gain or loss may indicate depression.
Agitation. You may seem restless, agitated, irritable and easily annoyed.
Fatigue or slowing of body movements. You feel weariness and lack of energy nearly every day. You may feel as tired in the morning as you did when you went to bed the night before. You may feel like you're doing everything in slow motion, or you may speak in a slow, monotonous tone.
Low self-esteem. You feel worthless and have excessive guilt.
Less interest in sex. If you were sexually active before developing depression, you may notice a dramatic decrease in your level of interest in having sexual relations.
Thoughts of death. You have a persistent negative view of yourself, your situation and the future. You may have thoughts of death, dying or suicide.
Depression can also cause a wide variety of physical complaints, such as gastrointestinal problems (indigestion, constipation or diarrhea), headache and backache. Many people with depression also have symptoms of anxiety.

Children, teens and older adults may react differently to depression. In these groups, symptoms may take different forms or may be masked by other conditions. Kids may pretend to be sick, worry that a parent is going to die, perform poorly in school, refuse to go to school, or exhibit behavioral problems. Older people may be more willing to discuss the physical manifestations of depression, instead of their emotional difficulties.

2007-10-25 00:33:41 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

It can defently make you feel overwhelmed. You should contact a doctor for anti-depressant. For things you can do on your own, try your hardest to think posotive and get energy and do the things you gotta do! I know it's hard, and your probably saying, "What's the point?", or something like that, but trust me, it'll get better. Talk to your friends & family for support. :) GOOD LUCK.

2007-10-24 23:06:18 · answer #4 · answered by Mary Jane's Last Dance 3 · 1 1

I was also going through the same phase some time back. It all depends on your belief system. If you think you will be cured only by taking pills then NO other method can cure you.You have to change your thinking.

2007-10-27 16:10:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

Yes, it can. Your energy levels become so low that you find it difficult to do ordinary things also. Pl. get medical help in the main stream or the alternative streams.

2007-10-24 23:11:53 · answer #6 · answered by Swamy 7 · 0 1

Were rowing the same boat. I suffer the same exact problem. I am supposed to be taking wellbutrin, which does help me from time to time.
I can't wait to see other answers to your question. Good luck.

2007-10-24 23:15:05 · answer #7 · answered by Ginny S 3 · 1 1

yes, see a counsilor and your doctor.. sometimes mineral or vitamin deficiencies can make you feel really tired

2007-10-24 23:07:34 · answer #8 · answered by got2go2006 1 · 0 1

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