we met at her work more than a month ago i really like her but i had seconds thoughts at first coz she's turning 20 and im 28 but we really clicked so what... and now we're good friends.
we went out once and we had a breaktime together (twice isnt it?)... basically we only spent a little amount of time together due to work constraints but we always communicate via cellphone (text messages and the like) and she initiates that most of the time
i havent really ask her about relationships but i always cut in some lines whenever we talk, so she knows that i like her even though i havent said it directly...
it bothers me too when she doesnt answer some of my questions regarding going out...
i dont know if i should tell her now or if i should wait because ive read many topics here that says if you like a girl go tell her bcoz that's what girls like.i think she likes me but she doesnt want to let me in her life that quickly.
i nid a firm answer i knw thr wud be 2 sides of answers. Thanks
2007-10-24 22:42:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I always say to be friends first. It sounds like you are there. You have not known her that long. Tell her that you would like to get to know her better and ask her out as FRIENDS only. That way you will get to know her slowly. It is not good to rush into anything when you have only known her a month. My boyfriend and I knew each other as friends only for almost two years before deciding to date. It has been almost a year now. We knew we liked each other as friends and then knew by then, we wanted to date.
We also have decided Not to partake in a physical relationship. Being physical can evolve emotions that get in the way of really getting to know someone.
Friends first for a while before dating is my recommendation. Don't feel you need to rush into anything. If it is meant to be, it will happen. Have fun as friends and there will not be any pressure on either side.
2007-10-24 22:49:50 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are you waiting for to turn over 80 years old?
be a straight person honest and of course what we all like educated a real gentlemen basically they will disappear soon
take your change you have nothing to loose in case she will say no there will be others girls to come
2007-10-25 05:47:39 · answer #2 · answered by Helena 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just take the plunge, ask her out, what have you got to lose ? If the answer is no, just be friends and you know you are avaliable for the next chick that comes along.
2007-10-25 05:46:49 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wait for some more time .Let her know that you are good person in human kind.
2007-10-25 06:04:53 · answer #4 · answered by LEONITA D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she definitely doesn't like you. if she did she would have said so by now.
2007-10-25 05:45:27 · answer #5 · answered by Eleanor Roosevelt 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋