what will i do
i dont wanna hurt them both...
i may look selfish to have 2 of them
but
i don't know.............
it's hard...............
i love them both..........
2007-10-24 22:18:19 · 13 answers · asked by jhaycee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm in a long distance relationship also. Now you have to choose now who you like best because if the far away girl is planning to get closer to you as in move closer and give up everything to be towards you (which is what i'm planning to do with mine) and you doing this all hell is gonna break loose. And your gonna cause a lot of pain.
2007-10-25 00:08:05 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great delusional and narcissitic thinking.
You love neither of them.
You are using them both. Someone is going to get hurt. it may be you.
Suppose the far away girl is also fooling around?
Does gf#2 know of # l? I didn't think so, you now know how fire was discovered,
Your are being controlled by your nether
region. congratulations. you have allowed yourself to be a bit player in a large drama. You know who the star is, and it ain't you!
Well, you 're at the beloved age when
only one thing is important. Two things, actually, you have to be able to get away with it.
Take my word for it, We aren't smart enough. Enjoy while you can, Mr.smarty
Whats with all these guys with two and three and even four women? I don't even have one. Hey! Who's got mine?
Well I can see the advantages, you get a discount on condoms right? By the gross
you get them half price, right? Lets see, a gross a week x 52 weeks...x7 days in a week = 365 x 2 x a day and 2 x a night...15,000 times a year each girl
heee
quaaaaack
2007-10-24 22:39:36 · answer #2 · answered by wpepper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm... So you have two women available to you. What guy wouldn't dream of that? However it is wrong of you to lead them both on because it will backfire on you. Also it is impossible to be in love with them both, maybe infatuated but nothing more. Perhaps one has qualities the other does not and vice versa. Which creates a conflict of interest between the two women. Your best bet would be to do the honorable thing and let both of them know what is going on despite how much you think it will hurt them both they will appreciate it more in the end. Then you will be free to pursue someone who will meet all your needs and expectations without having to worry about hurting a third party. And the best part it will save you a lot of screaming and moaning and arguing later on down the road.
2007-10-24 22:35:35 · answer #3 · answered by cbauman1000rr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These answers are all horrible! It's difficult. But if you're girlfriend is protective then i wouldn't advise it. If she isn't maybe you would ask her. Don't hurt the other girl. If you have to dump one let it out real gently too, it would be better though if you could work it out.
2007-10-24 22:26:43 · answer #4 · answered by LuthienT (retired) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to make a decision. It is unfair to the long distance one to keep he hanging like that if you in fact really do love her. You need to be honest and love her enough to let her find happiness. If you love her too much to lose her, then lose the new one!! How would you feel if she did that to you???
2007-10-24 23:15:56 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem...I feel your pain. The problem is when the one that is far away wants to come visit...What do you tell the one who is near? Do you lie?
Just stick with it for now, make sure that YOU are happy...that's what really matters. Life has a way of working itself out.
2007-10-24 22:27:10 · answer #6 · answered by John L 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're already dating both of them. If you really cared, you wouldn't have started another secret relationship behind your 1st girlfriends back. She's far away, let her be with someone that has more respect!
2007-10-24 22:21:27 · answer #7 · answered by мooи sнiиe 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ok here's the deal:
-see who satifies you the most (who hugs, kisses, touches you, etc. the most)
-who do you talk to often
-who looks more beautiful?
use these clues to help you.
remember that you can still be friends with the one girl you break up with.
2007-10-24 22:21:30 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do them both at the same time.
2007-10-24 22:20:45 · answer #9 · answered by Eleanor Roosevelt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a tough one! I've been there. I just waited it out and one left
2007-10-24 22:21:18 · answer #10 · answered by Bubbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋