So....my boyfriend and I (of 3 years) have 2 mutual friends who just had their engagement party a couple months back. I couldn't actually go b/c I was ill...blah blah... he went!
So...last week, I was on his computer and I saw a photo album that was titled their engagement. Naturally, since I couldn't go ...I looked at the pics instead! duh! well, he got a little choked up and said, "don't freak out but my good girlfriend and i were just joking around in a few of these photos" so i was like ok...and i saw 2 pictures that were a bit distasteful. One, it looked like she made him wrap her arms around him (like a prom pic pose) and she looked DEAD serious while his face was a bit like omg she's doing this (but still he DID go along with that!) and then the other was him and his good friend picking her up in the air and my b/f was pretending like he was grabbing her boobs. I'm not jealous b/c I know I'm much better on the eye than her, but he claims their just "good friends" yet i've nev
2007-10-24 22:10:19 · 7 answers · asked by ? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
er met her in a 3 year period nor has her name ever been spoken. i've seen her thru facebook and stuff though so i know she's not random. but for her to be such a "great" friend to him, wouldn't she know to have respect towards his girlfriend? and vice versa.. i know he's just as wrong but gosh it erks me. am i being too dramatic?? i just know i don't do that with my "good" guy friends. kinda trashy.
2007-10-24 22:11:46 · update #1
its trashy and needy
and he likes the attention
you are right to feel what you do, your boyfriend probably wouldnt take it any further but sounds like he lapped it up and encouraged this desperate behaviour
you will always come out looking the better woman here never fear
2007-10-24 22:18:59 · answer #1 · answered by ♠ Merlin ♠ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you think is trashy is not relative to what she thinks is trashy. What bothers me of this whole story is the part of you've never met this girl yet they're really good friends... What's all that about? But anyway, I think you are not overreacting (because of previous reason) but I think you should just let it go, there's nothing that you can do unless you want to create conflict within your relationship.
2007-10-24 22:16:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gosh, it's okay, you're not overreacting. It's always good to know you're boyfriends' female friends. especailly if they are good friends. if you it irked you just mention it to your boyfriend. I looks like he was being open about it and that's good, it means he isn't trying to cover up. Just try to get to know that girl, and tell your boyfriend that it kind of made you annoyed. But stay cool girl, you're okay.
2007-10-24 22:24:39 · answer #3 · answered by LuthienT (retired) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a way to make it to another engagement where both of them will be present that will tell you everything. It sounds funny to me youve never met his good "friend".
2007-10-24 22:20:09 · answer #4 · answered by Harry O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might want to do a little investigating just too be sure, but I would not make any accusations until I was sure of the situation.
2007-10-24 22:18:13 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you know youre the apple in his eye then just chill
2007-10-24 22:24:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep an eye on them
2007-10-24 22:17:45 · answer #7 · answered by Papi Chulo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋