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hi frens.i am a 21 yrs old girl having a bf.we r getting married in a few months,we hv sex many times,but wht i hate is anal sex which my bf always insists for.Now wht to do,he has been trying for it from 6 months but i am not allowing it.He says it is exciting but i think i am not ready for this as i am very scared of this as i hv heard of many things abt it.Now wht to do..pls help!

2007-10-24 20:11:25 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Weddings

54 answers

Tell him no. Remember, sex isn't always about one person.

2007-10-24 20:13:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 73 37

She could have internal haemorrhoids or even warts, this can cause anal bleeding. When we get older our tissues 'dry up' and cells get older so they don't secrete as much. The bowel is filled with mucous most of the time (to aid the passage of poo), but with anal sex u need to use lots of water- based lubrication (not vaseline as it harbours bacteria). The Dr can do a quick check with a proctoscope to have a look to see what is going on, but I would hold off with the anal sex 4 now, as the bleeding won't get better. Maybe she was too dry? Also a rectal ultrasound can be done to check for any abnormalities. Make sure she tells her Dr that she engages in anal sex. With any prolonged bleeding, put pads/towels whatever u have at hand, and get her to lie on a pillow with her bottom up (so the blood doesn't flow downward). Ice wrapped in a teatowel will help constrict blood vessels and make sure she doesn't take Ibuprofen (as it causes internal bleeding in the body) - unless she has been taking too many anti-inflammatories? Hope she feels better soon.

2016-04-10 04:02:07 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0 3

Hey, it's YOUR body! If you have tried enough times to know that you don't like it and are not ever going to like it, then he had better accept that fact and stop trying to talk you into it. He is being selfish and rude to you, and needs to understand that sex isn't just about taking his pleasure. You do not have to do a dang thing just because he wants you to.
You might want to think about putting the wedding on hold until you can work out this fundamental problem of respect and consideration for each-other with him.

2007-10-27 14:36:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 7 6

He won't marry you.

2015-10-17 04:24:32 · answer #4 · answered by marque_de_sade666 3 · 0 0

LET YOU BOYFRIENDS GET IT ON IN YOUR SMELLY A S S HOLE, YOU SCREAM WITH PLEASURE WHILE HE F U C K THAT S H I T HOLE....YIPPIE KI YAY

2016-06-11 11:42:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Your spelling...

2015-05-11 10:01:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 5 2

ok well very one has there own idea of a great time, but me and my husband enjoy it, while he is doing that you take care of the other end and you will have loads of fun and enjoyment

2007-10-25 03:39:14 · answer #7 · answered by Alisha Dover 2 · 13 8

Don't do it...don't do ANYTHING you don't want to do...

Of he doesn't understand your feelings then drop him! You can find a man who RESPECTS your body!

2007-10-27 15:47:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 14 6

i say just try it...i love it...(very uncomfortable at first)...but will say the anal big "O" is worth it

2007-10-26 18:19:22 · answer #9 · answered by CJ T 1 · 9 9

Well, if you aren't ready yet, he should know that and if not, tell him to respect your rectum. But when you're ready, it's very helpful to use a lot of lubrication because the anus is normally a muscle tightly held shut so it would really be uncomfortable during your first time, when you decide to. Another tip I have is that you should always go to the bathroom before this activity, especially if you're on the receiving end. Second, your partner should always make sure to practice safety because it might irritate your anus if sperm gets released there. Third, know what to expect. The anus is where excrement comes from, so don't be surprised if you get some brown stuff out or on your partner's member during this vigorous activity.

Finally, anal sex depends on your willingness. If you are going to try it soon, take caution, and afterwards, let experience be your best teacher.

2007-10-24 20:24:02 · answer #10 · answered by Nimaj Ben 1 · 19 18

Tell your boyfriend that anal sex is a definite no no and you will not change your mind. If he insists, tell him you will place a wood stick up his bottom and see how it feels. Tell him also you are not into pain of any kind in the sexual act and if this is what he intends to do after you get married, then the wedding is off. Also explain you feel sex is a "feel good" act and should not have pain inflicted on one of the participants. You must stand up for your rights...if you don't he'll think you are a wimp and can get away with anything. If your B/F scares you, this is not a way to start a marriage. I would seriously think about what you are getting yourself into. Ask him if this is what he intends to do after you are married and that if it is, you cannot marry him. Give him back his ring if he insists then call off the wedding. Sex will be part of your married life and if you have to be in fear or be intimidated by him, this is not good. Tell him honestly how you feel and let the chips fall where they may...do not be afraid.

2007-10-25 04:09:56 · answer #11 · answered by cardgirl2 6 · 12 21

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