Ok well im 17 years old & i have a lil brother thats 13..anyways like its weird knowing he's grwoing up now & he started dating this girl thats like just bugs me she seems just so concieted & with an attitude..but the thing is i have never even got to meet her yet. like how she is on myspace and how my mom said she was makes me just want to kick her *** cause i dont want her to like brake his heart hes like soo sprung like its crazy i never seen him act like this ..hes been with other lil girls that i know of and hes never been like that ..I want to tell him what i think about this girl cause he always tells me what he thinks about the guys i go out with .but i dont know if i should cause i told him once shes not pretty and he go t like mad ...i want 2 tell him but scared like i dont want him to be mad at me & not only that we dont live with each other but i see him all the time & if we fight then that means we stop talkign for like a every long time should i tell him or what?
2007-10-24 19:54:35 · 4 answers · asked by tart 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
okay and if ur going to say something stupid or mean dont out anythign at all
2007-10-24 20:06:10 · update #1
It is not your choice who he likes, it is his. Just remember that he will, and you will, have your hearts broken many times before you meet the right person. That is how we learn to choose the right person. He is only 13. It is not like he is going to marry her.
Just tell him nicely, that you wish that she treated him nicer. Tell him that if things do not work out, he can talk to you. In other words just be there for him, don't try to control him.
This is not something that will affect him the rest of his life. When he is older, it will not matter anyway. You won't be able to make any of his choices. You will only be able to advise him, and he may not even like that.
2007-10-24 20:09:28 · answer #1 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, honesty is the best course of action here. Tell him what you think and why you feel that way.
2007-10-24 19:58:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not an issue for you to deal with, it should be between him and your parents.
2007-10-25 07:49:47 · answer #3 · answered by dapriz6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes its better to just not say anything. and if she breaks his heart just be there for him
2007-10-24 21:44:02 · answer #4 · answered by bluesky 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋