Okay well this kid in my science class he is way cute and has a way fun personality well he asked me out befor and i said yes but we NEVER talked and i missed that so i broke up with him he is also really short... he goes up to my chest and just think if i were to hug him i would have to bend down wouldnt that be awkward well any way he asked me out again how should isay no in a nice way that we can still remain friends
2007-10-24 19:12:16 · 7 answers · asked by Jessica H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just be truthful to him, i know it might be hard some times. but it would hurt him more if you lead him on, and hes having all thses type of feelings for you. so just be truthful, but jentle. tell him you like him more as a friend. and once you tell them that thin they already know the deal.
2007-10-24 19:20:50 · answer #1 · answered by una_pinche_culera 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You led the guy on and he thinks you're interested. Try having a conversation with him and mention (discreetly) how you think of him like a brother and a good friend. He'll understand. There is nothing you can say that will make him feel better because you used him. That wasn't nice now, was it. If you like him and consider him a friend, you need to treat him or any "friends" a whole lot better. If you lose his friendship, it's your own fault. It's OK to go out with people that are just friends and have a good time, but you need to be sure they understand that the two of you are just friends. And when you go out with someone, you're not going with them. That requires commitment and you are too young to understand that at this point. Have a lot of friends and go a lot of places and do a lot of things. Don't get all tied down to one guy at this point. You have a lot in front of you. Just enjoy your life and have a good time and take care of yourself.
2007-10-24 19:27:09 · answer #2 · answered by towanda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel, I once dates a guy that was shorter then me, he was cute and nice enough.. but one day shortly after we started dating I saw the reflection of us in glass doors.... NO WAY I could ever date a guy that is a lot shorter then me. Tell him he's a great guy, and you'd love to be good friends, but you have to be honest and tell him you don't feel that way about him..
2007-10-24 19:24:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wont want to be your friend so you shouldnt expect that. You just need to say "Im not really into dating right now, and I just dont think Im ready for a boyfriend" or something along those lines. Then pretty much try to avoid him for a little while. He will move on.
2007-10-24 19:21:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him at this 2d you're in all honesty not waiting for a dedication. which you adult men could desire to artwork on development your friendship somewhat of making a courting. tell him alot of circumstances relationships dont finally end up working and you notice him as an excellent chum and you do not prefer to lose him as a chum so which you adult men could desire to save it that way. goodluck :)
2016-10-07 13:37:25 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say "I'm flattered, you're a really sweet guy, but I don't feel that way about you. I'd love that we can stay friends, though."
uhh, just to warn you, the staying friends part...highly unlikely.
2007-10-24 19:17:19 · answer #6 · answered by EnnSam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say: it didn't work the first time i don't thuink it won't again
2007-10-24 19:19:06 · answer #7 · answered by SKOJ*SING 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋