I'm 18 and everytime I have the chance (Which is not very often) I have sex with a guy. Even if I know it's only going to be a one night thing. (I only have sex with people I know) It makes me feel more attractive. I have had sex with 6 guys in just two years. It's a lot and I have only felt physical attraction to 3 of them. The other 3 were just cuz I could. Could this be some kind of mind disorder?
2007-10-24 18:56:59 · 30 answers · asked by fransiskoangel 2 in Health ➔ Diseases & Conditions ➔ Other - Diseases
no mind disorder. you're just easy.
2007-10-24 19:00:20 · answer #1 · answered by VN-Cop 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Six guys in two years is not really that much, however doing it just because you can is not usually the best reason to be having sex. It sounds like you just enjoy the power. Now, if you start doing it with anything that has three working legs, that could be a problem. I'd just invoke a little more respect for my own body and not give the cha-cha to just anyone. I have no problem with having sex if you feel like it, but perhaps they could earn it a little more.
That's just my take on it.
2007-10-24 19:02:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi,
well, i really think if u r asking about it, it is because u somehow feel bad.If u feel bad why doing it. U slept with 3 guys u liked, and the others just 'cause u could. U got to check out ur priorities. feeling attractive is great, 6 or 10 guys, it doen't matter, but u should at least give some respect to ur body. It is not the guys who r going to respect u..........
Maybe u r in a phase of finding urself, don't lose urself in the process.
and again careful, boys will just do it, u r the one who should watch out for urself.
Hope it helped,
2007-10-24 19:15:46 · answer #3 · answered by anne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try very hard to not make this a habbit. If you kept on doing this all the time word will get around because even though you "know" these people....you really dont. They could be on the phone telling all their buddies the second they get in the car after having had sex with you. I suggest you check your behavior before it turns into a habbit you cant kick. Or before you get pregnant or get a disease...or get into a situation where someone wants to abuse you. (some people are into crazy sex stuff...)
Have more respect for your self.......or no one else ever will.
2007-10-24 19:09:32 · answer #4 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O.K. darling: I am a lot older than you, but I do remember doing some of the same things. You've got to have confidence in yourself! Men can help but not solve the problem. I have been there. I don't think there is anything wrong with you but youth. Maybe, take time to meet the right guy and then decide if you have enough in common to take the next steps. Also protect yourself! Don't short change yourself....southernhoney
2007-10-24 19:07:39 · answer #5 · answered by southernhoney 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe, and only because you seem to do it for no reason, not because of the number. I know you said that it makes you feel attractive, but that is not good enough of a reason. So maybe it's not about sex, maybe you are insecure and that is your problem, but it could be a real problem. There is not enough information to give you a definite answer. Take care.
2007-10-24 19:03:49 · answer #6 · answered by xena790 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, your fine. Your just at the stage in your life where your trying new things and experimenting a little. And trust me 6 guys in 2 years is not a lot compared to some girls I know! As long as your having fun and doing if safely theres nothing wrong with enjoying sex
2007-10-24 19:01:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you are "looking for love in all the wrong places", When you are 35 and married, you will wonder what you were thinking. So try and get this under control now, with all the disease's out there these days, why would you risk it? There are so many other ways to enjoy life.
2007-10-24 20:01:17 · answer #8 · answered by Patricia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
use protection against getting pregnant and spreading diseases like AIDS from some guy to you. If you want to BOOGIE, that's your right at 18, but think about someday when you want to get married...will that RIGHT GUY forgive all the things you are doing now just because you had the chance?
2007-10-24 19:02:05 · answer #9 · answered by Mike 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes , this is not normal to want to sleep with so many guys.You ain't finding the right thing to make you happy in your mind and heart, you might think it is, but it is only fun that is disguising the real problem. Do get help, i hate to see what problems you have with diseases in 5 years if you keep this up.
2007-10-24 19:02:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..u just need to control yourself, u should think over when u feel like u want to do it. d'u think u really wanna do it or not, what would the guys say about u? there's nothing wrong with u, it just a self control.
u don't wanna be known as a slu*, do u?
2007-10-24 19:11:50 · answer #11 · answered by nissa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋