I've known this guy friend of mine in college for a few months now...and we call each other all the time and make plans to hang out. I wasn't sure if I liked him back before, but I'm pretty sure I do now =). The relationship doesn't seem to be moving anywhere though and I don't want him to become "bored" and move on...I don't want to tell him directly, but how do I show I like him? Do you think he possibly knows already?
2007-10-24 18:55:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-10-24 18:58:46 · answer #1 · answered by ♥dO yoU loVe iT♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say put signs out there. You have known him for quite some time. You know what he likes so go for it. You could say "How about we got out for dinner some time? Maybe a drink?" When you do this, look your best better than you normally would. So he would notice. Nothing like a little eye candy. Openly flirt with him.
If this doesn't work, than flat out tell him how you feel and see if he feels the same way. The great thing about Technology today. You don't have to be honest in person, you could do it by e-mail or IM. You do have to ask him out in person, if you are going to look your best.
2007-10-25 02:04:51 · answer #2 · answered by ielleyby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're too ashamed to tell him directly, maybe u could just use the indirect approach......like giving away compliments, hanging out more, if he likes u then he wouldn't get bored.
if u want him to not get bored with u then try new places to hang out, try new food to eat, try new places to explore, try new things to do and talk about different topics.
hangout with other people while hanging out with him so he wouldnt eventually get tired of ur presence and so that u could give him a little space too...and make urself seem a bit hard-to-get.
to get him to admit that he likes u...
talk to ur friends AND him about wanting a guy in ur life and that u'll feel reali hapi wen a guy wil ask u out
that way he would be encouraged to be ur bf
not that he would be scared of wut ur reaction will be
let him know u're available...
=)
2007-10-25 02:09:57 · answer #3 · answered by bellaviolet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, your not sutle at all. This is just it, who in their right mind wants a relationship that you have to work for-----doesn't cut it for me. I like effortless bliss and the smiles of attraction you can feel in your body and soul. These make me feel it and I must be feeling it to involve my self further. When you are comfortable with your self as a woman loves comes to you more freely. This also means your happy when your not in love also, cause your at peace with your self and find joy in the moment.You cannot make love happen grasshopper......
2007-10-25 02:08:21 · answer #4 · answered by kim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take him some flowers or leave a rose on his car windshield, men like that stuff too.
2007-10-25 02:08:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do something spontaneous
2007-10-25 02:00:10 · answer #6 · answered by SKOJ*SING 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You please give him written chit. If no positive response left him.
2007-10-25 02:01:27 · answer #7 · answered by momil 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋