My girl got in a wreck yesterday, was kinda shaken up, but from what I was told, didn't seem TOO serious. But anyway, she hasn't called me today (its nothing unusual, she usually dont call me til about 12:30 am or 1 anyway cuz she works), but its about 12:30 now. If she dont' call by..i'd say idk, 1, then should I give her a quick call just to make sure she's ok? I mean theres days when she dont call me, but tonight, if she dont call, should i call her? I'm just kinda worried about her.
2007-10-24 18:30:09 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
CALL HER NOW!
2007-10-24 18:36:30 · answer #1 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely. If she's special to you, and you to her, than she'll need to hear from you. Whether or not the accident was serious- it was still enough to upset her. You NEED to be there for her. Obviously it has caused you some concern.
At the very least let her know that you're there for her and that you were affected by what happened. No girl wants to think that she can go through something traumatic and nobody cares.
She'd be more offended if you didn't call. Don't wait for her to make the first move after she's been through such a thing.
2007-10-25 01:38:15 · answer #2 · answered by jenjenta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man of course !
In fact you shouldn"t . you have to call. And if I was you I wouldn"t wait till 12 30 am . This is the relation ships you gusy have to take care of each other . You know what I mean ?!?!?!
So go ahead .
2007-10-25 01:38:51 · answer #3 · answered by falenish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without a doubt! You are seriously concerned and just want to hear it from her that she's alright, correct? Then do just that! Don't play games. ie:you don't call me so I won't call you. Pick up the phone and you can keep it short and sweet but to show you care isn't a sign of weakness, it's a sign of genuinely being a good person. Hope all is well!!
2007-10-25 01:34:32 · answer #4 · answered by enjoyrselves 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Totally call her!! Not only will it give you a piece of mind if she is okay, but it will also show her you care...
I would hope someone would call me to check up on me if I got in a wreck!! And I would also be on the phone with that person in a split second... =)
2007-10-25 01:33:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes. call her. maybe she is still a little shaken up. just let her know that its ok if she doesnt want to talk tonight, but you wanted to make sure she was ok because of the wreck yesterday.
2007-10-25 01:33:53 · answer #6 · answered by kelly n 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
definitely call her. Right now!!!! She was in an accident, no matter how big or small, you should be the one to call her to see if she's alright. Don't wait for her to call you. She's prob wondering why you havent called to see how she is. She shouldn't be the one to always call, that might make her feel like the relationship is one-sided.
2007-10-25 01:34:00 · answer #7 · answered by Laura J 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Call her. Just to let her know that you care. You actually should have called once you found out about the accident. But then again...it's up to you!
2007-10-25 01:33:26 · answer #8 · answered by Natasha! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should have called her when you woke up regardless of her working or not, of course call her asap dont wait for her to call you when she was the one who was unwell??? Call HER NOW!
2007-10-25 01:36:02 · answer #9 · answered by Me, myself and I 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is a nice thing to show concern. She would probably be offended if you did not call to see how she is doing. Guys forget that girls like guys to be compassionate. Call her!!
2007-10-25 01:33:41 · answer #10 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have never heard of a girl who didn't want a guy to call them... especially when she's in an emergency. She needs her mannnn - so call her, NOW!
2007-10-25 01:38:12 · answer #11 · answered by haut talons 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋