i'm sure all guys have been in the "friend zone" at some point, but i like this one girl but she only sees me as a friend and i know i'm in the friend zone because she said she just wants to hang out as friends...what do i do? just move on? some times i get the feeling she MAY like me but i'm only kidding myself..it's so hard because even though i know many girls, i dont have many real "friends" that are girls, she is the only one who has ever been real good with communicating with me and she's very nice and a real friend
what do i do? keep her as friend only find someone else? thank you.
2007-10-24 17:42:57 · 7 answers · asked by Mark 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Here we go again. Yeah, if she said he wants to be friends, she is not romantically attracted to you, but she likes your conversation, enjoys spending time with you (as a friend). Men never seem to get this. We don't necessarily want to sleep with everyone we "like" as a friend.
2007-10-24 17:48:51 · answer #1 · answered by Princess Picalilly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
though you may like her more than just a friend, you have to push your feelings aside for a minute. think about this, if you do get with her a things dont exactly work out, then you break and your not good friends anymore. if that was to happen you would lose her not only as a girlfriend but as a great friend. is it really worth losing a great friendship over. of course it hurts but if you truely care about her, you will do whats right not only for you but for her as well
Good luck
2007-10-24 17:50:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should make a move...i mean if you guys are all that great together then she might have a crush on you two you should ask her what she feels for you!! and well let her know that if she really doesnt feel anything but a friend zone that you are alright with it
2007-10-24 17:46:46 · answer #3 · answered by rosey c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her if there is any chance of going further with having a relationship with her she may be waiting for u to ask her, its always worth a try and that way u will get the answer u want and whether to move on or not
2007-10-24 17:49:00 · answer #4 · answered by sina p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude this happenind to me to!!!! watever you do dont screw it up saying you like her . you have some opsions
1.do stuff that a gf and bf would do(huging talking and more)
2.this qestion will come up shell say do i llook fat,doi look good in this or,how do i look say you look pretty or fine just the way you are or say no your not fat.
3.ask her if she thinks of you as a friend or a bf you may not be able to it takes alot of guts well i hope this helped.
2007-10-24 17:49:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has given you no indication of wanting anything more, then don't lose your friend by making things awkward for her. If she changes he mind, you will see changes in the way she is when she is with you.
2007-10-24 18:07:12 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep her
2007-10-24 17:46:27 · answer #7 · answered by john w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋