Hi, I met a childhood friend on facebook and we met up to catch up. We are 25. He has my #, but he emailed thru facebook for a 2nd date "are u free this sat? wanna meet up ?" which I find impersonal. y didn't he call instead? He is not shy. So far, we have not talked bout sex. In his profile, it says looking for friends. On our 1st date, he asked me few questions but not a lot & it didn't seem like he was trying to impress me. He was blunt about his lack of college degree and when i said everyone has diff pace in life, he said "yea right, 7 yr difference in pace." He said his last 7 yrs was partying. So I said u must've gotten it out of your system by now, but he bluntly said nope. It seemed like he didn't want me to see any good qualities in him. But if that was the case, y a 2nd date? I replied "what you have in mind for sat?" he said i'm up for anything, we can do lunch?" If his intention is sex, is he hoping lunch will lead to dinner, movie, back to his home, etc.?
2007-10-24 16:05:17 · 4 answers · asked by Ashley K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Seems like he is just interested in catching up. He just wants someone to talk to. It doesn't seem formal and it doesn't even seem like he is fairly interested in taking things further. Just relax
2007-10-24 16:12:17 · answer #1 · answered by First Lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is just being a friend. The fact that he suggested a lunch "date" instead of drinks and dinner suggests he is not interested in taking things further. And the fact that he is not building himself up, but being honest, leads me to believe that he is not interested in impressing you. If he wanted to sleep with you he'd show himself in the best light. Instead he is just being honest.
Go to lunch, catch up, and then cut it short or I bet he will. If he wanted it to lead to sex he would have suggested dinner. Men are not very subtle usually.
2007-10-24 23:17:17 · answer #2 · answered by vm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will never know and sorry all you have to do is end the date if you feel all he is after is sex or just say no ---- it could be he is lonely and wants to reconnect with people from his past --- if you enjoyed his company say yes if you dont want to go out say no ---- have fun
2007-10-24 23:11:32 · answer #3 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u dont wanna have sex dont if u do do because all guys love sex
2007-10-24 23:09:05 · answer #4 · answered by XoXo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋