Should I leave him!! My friend left her phone at our house and my boyfriend was to drop it to her because I had to go to work maybe I was dumb but I didnt think nothing of it! At any rate he went through her phone text messages and seen a text that I sent to her it said "I am going to ______ house" (yes its a guy) okay I only went to his house to check out the apartment because he asked me to roommate with him! Well I feel really bad, but isnt what my bf did really sick????
2007-10-24 12:29:23 · 7 answers · asked by Child Of God 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok, well he obviously doesn't understand the fact that you need your personal space and boundaries. and so does your friend. him going through her cell was not ok. but also, if you gave him your friend's cell phone to drop off, he probably got a little curious and flipped through her texts (wrong, yes, but sort of understandable - he probably wanted to see if you'd said anything about him).
so, no, i don't think what he did is bad enough for you to leave him. but you definitely need to talk to him and let him know that what he did was NOT OKAY. let him know you're mad, he should feel sorry for what he did. but once he apologizes, and if he really does seem sorry, i think everything should be fine again.
its sort of like in baseball... "three strikes and you're out." if this is the first thing he's done like this, it's ok. it's only one strike. just let him know that its not ok for him to do that. if he does it again after this, well, that's another story. then you might need to reconsider the relationship.
2007-10-24 12:33:18 · answer #1 · answered by JHCgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was extremely wrong what your bf did. If you really love him, let him know what happened (with the other guy) and things should work out. If that's really why you went over to that guys house, then you have nothing to worry about. If you really love him, you shouldn't dump him, but you need to let him know that what he did was really wrong and you it's going to be hard to trust him with that kind of stuff from now on.
2007-10-24 12:35:12 · answer #2 · answered by lc7089 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yep, he doesn't trust you and you need trust in a relationship. He probably doesn't trust you because he sends text messages to other ladies.
2007-10-24 12:34:38 · answer #3 · answered by peaches6 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Very rude of him to go through your friends phone. If he did it to her he probably does it to you
2007-10-24 12:32:42 · answer #4 · answered by mommacat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he shouldent have invaded your privacy or hers but you also shouldent have kept it from him. Work it out its no reason to dump him. make sure you both know you wont let it happen again.
2007-10-24 12:34:04 · answer #5 · answered by chimebear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's really creepy not only because he violated your trust, but it wasn't even your phone, it was your friend's phone. Jealous weirdo, dump him.
2007-10-24 12:34:09 · answer #6 · answered by Ken 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
what did he do? i'm confused
2007-10-24 12:33:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋