Guys does this ever happen to you. Only guys 17 and older.?

Question

Ok im a guy and im 17 years old, and i need help on what to do when a girl is like getting all touchy with you and is kinda cuddling with you at school or at some other location other than home. And heres the tough part, how do i control or hide what goes down in my pants so that she doesnt notice because im not sure how when girls get all close to other guys and sit right on their laps and the girl doesnt say anything or "go" omg i actually got him up and start laughing. I want to be in that position with a girl but i dont just want to extend whenever i just want to hold a girl round her waste or lay down next to her while our bodies touch. Can someone please help me!!

Answer 1

IM NOT A GUY, BUT JUST THINK ABOUT OTHER THINGS BESIDES SEX. BECAUSE I KNOW THATS WHAT DOING THROUGH YOUR HEAD. EVENTUALLY YOU WILL LEARN HOW TO CONTROL IT BUT THAT TAKES PRACTICE, I LEARNED THAT FROM MY BOYFRIEND OF 6 YEARS

Answer 2

I was once a 17 year old guy and I know exactly what you are going through. At that age, most young men are easily aroused. It is part of going through puberty. I used to have a problem "Getting it up" at my inconvenience. I could be sitting in Algebra class doing a problem and Mr. Happy starts standing at attention.

At your age you are starting to get into girls more and you are getting close to them as well. The best thing I did to combat instant on erections was rub some Vicks Vapor Rub down there. It burned a little so Mr. Happy stayed down a little longer.

Of course if she is freaky and starts rubbing her breast in her face, then Mr. Happy is coming up and there is nothing you can do about it.

Answer 3

At my age, I'd love to have that problem again! You may be able to make the bulge show less by how you dress and how you position your body, A jockstrap or tight briefs will help a little.

Sooner or later she will want to let you know she knows what's happening, and the two of you can discuss what you want to do about it. She may be getting excited, too, but you are so busy worrying about yourself, you're missing the more subtle signs of her arousal (breasts or nipples stiffening, an odor that says she's getting ready for sex, heavy breathing). You can't control the stiffening at your age, unless you're really good at thinking of real turnoffs.

Answer 4

First of all try to relax. Being high strung can make that happen. Also if it does happen and the girl notices play it off as if its no big deal. Say some type of smart or clever comment about it and she'll laugh and relax. Also some girls dont say anything about it because that was there whole goal to begin with sometimes just to mess with you. I dont know how to keep it from happening. But to keep her from noticing try wearing baggy clothes. And try to avoid materials like athletic shorts. I've noticed that they wont notice as much when you wear things like denim.

Answer 5

Well you should throw yourself at Happy Time everyday. Get all the pumped energy released. if she jumps on you, sitting on the sofa, then move around like something is in your back. You can be subtle about it, listen despite all their efforts to the contrary, women are heavy. Imagine carrying her in a fireman's carry?
I wouldn't worry about you thing getting up, women, unless they are looking right downstairs, would probably not notice. They sure won't say anything if they did. Wear underwear. Eventually you will gain control.

Answer 6

Hey better let her get a feel of what's going on inside your pants. That would be so exciting!

Otherwise you could wear an abdomen guard worn by sportsmen.

But I strongly recommend the first part.

It depends upon whether and when you want to tempt that girl to get excited and grab that thing in your pants.

Answer 7

Girls always notice these things so there is no point trying to hide what goes on

What are you worried about?

It's only natural!

Answer 8

I'm a girl (Sorry. I just had to read the question) and I understand that guys have these problems.. I mean... it happens to most guys especially the ones who aren't so experience. You shouldn't worry about it so much .. ;)

Answer 9

If you have an "open" conversation with your Dad or male mentor older than you they would be the "one" to answer this question for you.

I would ask the young lady what her intentions were and why she was getting so physical?

Answer 10

Im telling you dude it really all depends on what type of girl she is. Most girls who are Spunky and Out going probably be "grossed out" about it. But man i have figured out that if a girl notices you have a ***** going on and they arent flattered at all then just say this. "Hey, your hott, my d"i"ck knows it and its up to me to make sure you are hott" It might work it might not, who knows, it just might get you laid

Answer 11

Women think the same thing guys do, you see that a woman's gotten all perky in the chest region cause she's into you, you aren't going to shout about it, cause you'll be too busy having some naughty thoughts of your own, and same applies to her.