Today during passing periods i would catch my boyfriend glancing at his ex-girlfriend whenever she passed by. He lied to me and told me during his lunches and open periods he goes and drives off somewhere in his car, i got the news today that he was seen hanging out with her. He lied basically. Then today he asked me a question "if i threw you over this staircase would you be mad?" After he stopped looking at his ex-girlfriend. I got really offended as to why he'd even WANT to throw me down or over a staircase of any kind. I'm tired of this girl getting in the way of our relationship. It's REALLY hard because this specific girl almost has my exact name, she DOES have my exact nickname, she has my same hair color and length and she dresses exactly like me too. After dropping me off today after school my boyfriend didn't say bye or anything and just drove off. I got on here and he hasn't been acting like he cares at all, i even asked if he did and he said "whatever you say" and he logged
2007-10-24 12:21:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
off. My boyfriend is acting like a ***** and i just want to yell and scream at him... but then he might do something drastic like jump off a roof, i don't know. We're having so many problems, and i've been trying so hard to treat him right... I like this guy too much to just dump him. Why is he acting like this? Am i really in the wrong for being pissed for his stares and uneccessary jokes?
2007-10-24 12:23:49 · update #1
Give him some time and wait for him to contact you again. Men gets easily annoyed when they are being questioned nonstop by their significant other so just try and not argue or worry about his ex-girlfriend.
2007-10-24 12:26:03 · answer #1 · answered by Madison 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No guy should treat you that way! I say break up with him because you deserve better. I mean, who wants their boyfriend asking them if they can throw you off a staircase? it's disrespectful and disgusting! I'm sorry, but it's time to let this guy go!
best of luck!
2007-10-24 19:26:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No your not in the wrong for being up set.But you are in the wrong for thinking there is nothing wrong.He is playing you for a fool he is spending time with his x and telling you there is nothing wrong.Don't let his crap about hurting him self if he lost you he is playing you.It sounds to me he is trying to make you dump him then he can make you the bad person.You sound like a nice girl and you don't need some one like him making you feel in the wrong.He is seeing you and seeing her too.I think he is keeping you on the sting in case it don't work out with her.My thought dump his ***and find some one that wants you and not both worlds.(you and her)
2007-10-24 19:44:16 · answer #3 · answered by the answerman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sad I know but he is obviously not over the ex g/f. If he is lying to you about hanging out with the ex let him know you know about it. Ask him straight out if he is still hung up on the ex. if he is leave and find someone else.
2007-10-24 19:28:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm. I would try and ask him, confront him if you will, and ask about his ex. ask him if he has feelings for her still. this is the only way that you will know for sure. better then pretending and driving yourself crazy over it. if he has stronger feelings for his ex then you, there isn't much you can do. it may just be time for you two to move on. he sounds like he has his priorities confused.
good luck!
2007-10-24 19:29:01 · answer #5 · answered by pbn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
. Acting like a spoiled 12 yr old . As if this GUY was your husband . GEZZZZZZZZZZZ its a school crush nothing important like a man you plaining on marring. Why all the DRAMA QUEEN garbage .
2007-10-24 19:28:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hes using you. Its pretty obvious. You look like her and have the same name. He wants her not you. However if you dont want to dump him and dont mind being used go for it.
2007-10-24 19:26:27 · answer #7 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to dump him. You know that. He's crushing on this other girl. She's not in the way of your relationship, he is.
2007-10-24 19:28:10 · answer #8 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he is just confused you need to give it sometime....but i think if he didnt want to be with you he would have broken up wit you already
2007-10-25 00:44:41 · answer #9 · answered by rosey c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore him for a while..if he comes back well and good if ot he is not worth waiting for....jealousy kills so be careful....
2007-10-24 19:28:54 · answer #10 · answered by deepti k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋