Ok so i met this guy a couple of times he seemed really nice a bit quiet but i thought that was cute. Any way so we have sex and he starts not speaking to me. Then out of the blue he asks to come and see me so it happens again. Can any one tell me what i have done wrong? My friends tell me he is just shy that he does like me but come on how can he be shy with me now?
2007-10-24 12:16:18 · 30 answers · asked by katie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
looks like hes using you
2007-10-24 12:18:25 · answer #1 · answered by qpalzm 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Let me get this straight. You two have had sex and people think he is shy? Not a chance.
Here is the deal. He may have gotten with you because that is what he is looking for. Sex. I don't know how long you two dated before getting intimate, but I suspect that it must not have been for very long (within 4 dates). If that is true, then you gave it up very easily and now that is how is looks at you. Someone he can get with for easy sex.
Look. I am not going to think you are a **** because you like sex. Most normal people do. If you want someone to have a relationship with or someone for the long-term, wait to have sex with someone until you have dated at least 2-3 months. Make him work for it.
2007-10-24 12:24:16 · answer #2 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be bluntly honest.... It seems like your a booty call more then anything.
If you have chemistry thats fine but what girl doesn't want more. Try to contain yourself, establish a relationship that involves intelligent, or even random conversations and he'll gain respect for you and maybe want to talk to you without the strings of having sex with you.
Perhaps he's shy, but there are limits to being shy and they were crossed along time ago.
2007-10-24 12:20:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
,First of all--you should have made sure he liked you before you slept with him. He is just using you for a piece of ***. Next time, don't give him any and see how he treats you then. You must be pretty young to be having sex--esp. since you couldn't figure this out. Good luck and use protection or you may be a mommy or an aids victim.
2007-10-24 12:21:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
do you think you're worth more than a booty call? if you do, erase dude from your top 5 and move on. reputations are not easy to get but usually impossible to get rid of and you may be well on your way to getting a bad one. now go tell your 'friends' that this dude is history and that you are sorry for making such a poor decision as sleeping with him. try to encourage them that you are ALL much too precious for that. DON'T DO IT AGAIN! you are too BEAUTIFUL and PRECIOUS to be passed around.
2007-10-24 12:24:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too shy to talk but not shy about sex?? Maybe he just wants sex with no strings attached
2007-10-24 12:19:07 · answer #6 · answered by mommacat 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is using you so run FAR FAR AWAY. He isn't shy he just wants your naughty bits and thinks its okay not to talk to you until he wants more! If you decide to keep "Seeing" this guy then don't have sex with him until he starts talking to you more often.
2007-10-24 12:20:06 · answer #7 · answered by Miss Marketing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was shy he wouldnt have sex with you, he most likely is using you for your body.
If sure you are a nice girl but you should respect yourself more and not have sex until you have known each other for a month and know he cares about you.
2007-10-24 12:21:08 · answer #8 · answered by hello 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He doesnt want a relationship,he's calling you because he wants a booty call.The out the blue was a booty call.So whats the problem?If you are down with it,then do it.If he's shy he's shy.Shy people can be the best lovers.
2007-10-24 12:22:01 · answer #9 · answered by DizzyUpTheGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The 'problem' is that he's interested in sex but is not really ready for a relationship that involves communication. It's not shyness, he simply has nothing to say to you. Talking isn't why he's there.
2007-10-24 12:18:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
omg i know some one that has this problem i just think that he is usein you for sex because if he really like you i know he will talk 2you and no matter what if you have sex with someone you feel comfontable around them afterward just tell him how you feel to see where he really is
2007-10-24 12:25:22 · answer #11 · answered by shundra m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋