Also, do all guys check out other women even if they're happily married/in a relationship? I mean is it possible for a guy to truly have no desire to even look because he is in love with one girl only? It seems like that doesn't exist but I have heard about guys like that. I know this may be a confusing question I can clarify though.
Maybe some girls opinions would be good? Like, how many girls consider it okay for their man to check out other girls (when you're not around or even if you are around)??
2007-10-24 12:14:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Like, what I mean is are there any guys out there who really feel no need to check out other girls even if they have a girlfriend/wife? I'm just curious.
2007-10-24 12:21:05 · update #1
the first thing i think you need to understand is that women are beautiful. its in a mans nature to look. but in my case i never let my girl see. more importantly i wouldnt trade my girl for anyone much less trade her for a cheap evening. when i am out with my girl occasionly another woman will flirt with me and i dont even notice until we are leaving and my girl will say something like man she was trying to get on you. and im like really i didnt notice... and that is the truth. so what i am saying is that if your man loves you as much as i love my girl your mind stops working like that. good luck
2007-10-24 12:49:34 · answer #1 · answered by generaldisarray69 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's not what you think it is.
Women tend to feel very hurt by this behavior because they think it means the guy wants to date that other woman or kiss her or have sex with her etc. For some men this may be the case, but for most men it's just a look. Men are created to be attracted to women. They are genetically designed to notice attractive women. That doesn't mean they're having some sexual fantasy.
Many women take it as some sort of competition as if the man is looking at the other woman because he is dissatisfied with her or because he's on the look out for the bigger better deal. Again, this may occasionally be the case with some men, but generally this competition is imagined. The man is perfectly happy with his current lover and the look is just a look.
This can be very difficult for women to understand because women are not the same as men. Men are primarily attracted visually. For women visual attraction is secondary. Because women have little trouble keeping their eyes to themselves, they tend to expect the same from men and don't understand why it is difficult for them.
To save his wife or girlfriend discomfort, a sensitive and considerate man will try hard not to notice other women. Despite this gallant effort from time to time you can expect even the best of men to look. It's hardwired in their DNA. A sensitive and considerate woman will be understanding and not read too much into it.
2007-10-24 19:43:33 · answer #2 · answered by atomzer0 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is natural for anyone, man or woman to look at others of the opposite sex or even of the same sex. I mean there is nothing wrong with my man or even myself looking at other people. Heck you look at people at work, you look at people in a bar, you look at people in the restroom, you look at people in a restaurant. I mean people don't just become obsolete when you are married or in a relationship. I mean that is pretty a ridiculous idea to me. Now if my guy was doggedly staring at another woman like I never even existed or even told me to move out the way so he could see her better then sure that would be a problem. But if he is glancing over at her, I could probably whisper something sexy in his ear, and get him hot for me and forget all about the woman if I wanted to. So again not a real problem anymore.
P.S. Life is too short to even be having a real issue about your man looking at another woman. Its going to happen all the time. You are even going to look at other men. Even be attracted to them. Everyone has lust at first sight. Better to acknowledge it now and appreciate your man even more than acting on it and lose someone you really care for. And besides there will always be two paths in life, the path where we b*tch and whine and nag about small irrelevant things for the rest of our days, or the path that says hey, this is who I am, this is who my partner is, and we understand each other well enough and we don't have to worry about being hurt by this person and if we are, we can still pull ourselves together and move on. Just have to choose which path you wish to be on and things will fall into place.
2007-10-24 19:51:13 · answer #3 · answered by Cursed_Romantic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In Asia & Muslim races it is common otherwise Girls & boys do all few express otjher hide. But it is not good & fair.
2007-10-24 19:19:31 · answer #4 · answered by mizaidi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yup, they pretty much all do it, but the real gentlemen will not do it in front of there partner, because they respect them to much to hurt them.
2007-10-24 19:19:26 · answer #5 · answered by April First 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would depends. I think anyone is appreciate attractive people. So its important not to feel threaten by it.
2007-10-24 20:33:16 · answer #6 · answered by Since you asked.... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes they do, it's just natural to us so don't be mad at us.
2007-10-24 19:17:15 · answer #7 · answered by Mike T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋