Car accident?

Question

my brother and sister got into a car accident, there both home now. But it dosnt seem like anything at home is getting better. Im only 15 and its really hard for me to watch my mom and dad, people who are supposted to be my "rock" break down and cry, to have everything everywhere with no control or structure, to have mom and dad at eachothers throats, to be the neighborhood charity box. I've become numb to everything. I push it all into the back of my mind and forget about it. Im completely withdrawn from everything. I dont care anymore. Its like in in my own bubble. I feel invisable, and alone. None of my friends get what im going through so they cant help. and its not like they care anyways. i told one friend and all she said was "that sucks" and walked away. I feel like im going this alone, and i cant do it by myself anymore. I wanna crawl into a hole and just be left alone. This whole month has been too much, one thing after another. im completely stressed i just want it to be over

I want to be myself again. But nothings getting any better, only worse. it shouldnt tho..there home now and fine. I wish someone knew what i was going through, its not like i can tell my mom because shes feeling exactly the same thing and she dosnt know how to fix it. so why would she be able to help me.

I just want someone to give me a big old hug and let me cry in there arms. i'd feel so much better.

Answer 1

there are millions of people in this world that feel like they have no one and feel alone , you are only 15 , it will get better trust me , your parents are i am sure trying their best , under stressful conditions, sometimes as parents we don,t get it right all the time either , maybe you could see a school counselor talk about how you feel , it will get better don,t just give up ...

Answer 2

Is there anyone you can talk to? A teacher? One good friend?

If I were there, I would take you out of your home and bring you to live with me temporarily until your folks get stuff straightened out.
Is there anyone you can stay with? Just for a few nights?

This is a terrible situation. Everyone in the house is under mind-altering stress. You are the only one who can stand back from the mess and look in because you're not hurt, and you're not one of the adults in charge.

Stay to yourself as much as possible. Don't go home until you have to--stay at the library or mall, wherever, so you're not in the middle of the goop. And look for someone who can help you. By no means are you to run away or hurt yourself. If you feel like doing so, call 911.

My name is Debbie Villareal and I live in Texas. My e-mail is [e-mail]. Let me know where you are and if you are safe.

My thoughts and prayers are with you, honey.

Debbie

Answer 3

A car accident can be a traumatic thing, depending on the extent of injuries. I'm sure your folks are stressed, too, and want to put this all behind them, but they may still be worrying about your brother's and sister's health. No parent wants to see their kids get hurt, and if the injuries were life-threatening (before they came home), your parents were probably going crazy with worry.

Bear with them. They've got a lot on their minds, too.

Answer 4

ive been through this feeling once youll get through it! i felt like i was alone because noone ever understood my life. my mom married an alcoholic and both of my sisters have had VERY tough past times and my dad should be in jail right now. but you'll grow up and you can be more independent on yourself and you will find friends who do care everyone does. i thought i never was gonna have someone to talk to but i have my sisters and some friends i can talk to about my personal problems. just hang in there ok! ive been stressed out so many times to so youre not the only one going through this you'll be ok

Answer 5

I have had one of classmates die. her name was Natasha. she was in a comma from a car crash. she died. i didn't now her very well. but a couple of weeks before the crash she offered to by best friend . i said no. really regret. i feel responsible for death. even though logically i know that it not my fault. I still feel so guilty.