Muslims what do you think about some Muslim men who?

Question

Muslims what do you think about Muslim men who marry non-Islamic women? Does the Muslim men who do this think about maybe there is a Muslim girl out there for him, they know the culture and the religion so they know that as Muslim women we have to wait for the man to come. So when they choose other wise it bugs me. Some girls have no choice, they can’t wait forever for a Muslim man to come and ask for her, so they end of with a converted man that they met themselves. I'm sure that there are mix stories of this being done in both halal and haram ways, and in the end they marry. I know that it is great to have someone convert to Islam, but if the some Muslim men would get there act together then there would be no need for some of the girls to do this. This could be dangerous in some ways. Oh and lets not forget that to certain/some Arab mothers mid- late 20’s is too “old”, I know in other cases girls want to wait until there done with school or until their ready. Nothing is wrong with waiting for the right reasons, but not when it’s because the non-Islamic girls get the Muslim men. What do you think about this?

lumivalkoinen: You are wrong about Islam. Both Islamic men and women have to marry an Islamic partner. You know nothing about my question, I don't need your uneducated comments. Thanks.

Answer 1

youre right...where i live, there are SO many muslim girls and theyre getting older and older and theyre not getting married. I get upset seeing so many of the muslim men finding nonmuslim women and "converting them." (yeah right) the fact that there are more women than men, statistically, doesn't help either, and finding a somewhat religious guy is very very hard in the united states.
..good luck to us girls, huh?

Answer 2

BSMLLH
Based on the maths alone, a man can marry up to 4 women.
The women dont like that, but Allah has made it Halal.
So if Islam was implemented in peoples lives they would not have an issue if they were as muslim as they would like to think they are.
It is permissable for a muslim man to eat the food and marry the women of the 'People of the Book'. Allah made it permissable, so if anyone has a problem with that then they have a problem with Allah.
Men must obey Allah not muslim women, and women must obey Allah not muslim men. If we all obeyed Allah there would not be so many personal issues and opinions.
If your issue is that a by a muslim man marrying a xtian woman he has upset the muslim male/female ratio then refer to the quran and its edicts on polygamy.
May Allah forgive me for anything I have said wrong and May Allah guide us all.

Answer 3

I have got nothing against it, but I do sometimes wonder is it not better if a man marries a partner who shares the same love for the Deen and implements what Allah (swt) sets out. There would also be so many differnces especially if a practising Muslim married a non mulsim, and it may be hard to come to agrrements. I know it is permissible but it baffles me.....

I just think it is better and easier if they married Muslims (",)

Though there is wisdom about it so I cant argue with it..

Answer 4

They can marry and I'm okey with that.
but some non practicing brothers marry a non Muslim and the children end up going to the church this happened to my uncle.
That should be an issue that needs attention.
If you marry a non Muslim women how will you raise your children?
under what religion?
we know mothers have more influence on their children. so caution should be taken.

plus if brothers marry non Muslim women, who will marry the Muslim sisters.
Also Allaah says it is better for you to marry muslimahs...muhsinahs....

as far as sisters marrying convert brothers I'm all for that.
there are allot of good practicing brothers out there and they need Muslim wives. so InshaAllaah that should not be an issue.

Answer 5

definite Muslims are allowed to placed on silver jewelry. maximum Muslims do not placed on any ingredient else to boot ring of their finger. Any ingredient to placed on that's made out of Gold is unlawful to Muslims. So maximum who comprehend do not placed on gold different than the ignorant ones who don't comprehend or do not care being not non secular.

Answer 6

you are right sister but what can we do we cant stop men from marring non-Muslim girls but if some of us don't get married that is in Allah's hands only he knows when we are going to get married and to who so now we just have to be patient! =)

Answer 7

Arab Muslims are uptight about it and its frowned upon from my experience. But Im a Muslim male and Im in a relationship with Catholic female. My folks don't like me being involved outside Bosnian and my religion but they want me to be happy so they tolerate. Other relatives not as nice though. But it only matters what you think and don't listen to others negativity. If you wanna be with someone non-Islamic then do it for yourself.

Answer 8

Theres not much to think about it for me. Its permissible so I cant say anything bad about it. BUT for my self, I wouldn't marry a non muslim, because Alhumdulillah my deen is very important to me, and There is barakah in marrying a pious women just like the qur'an says. Thats is my opinion but I will never say anything ill about a brother who decided to marry a women from the people of the book, because it being permissible.

Answer 9

u know what im a muslim guy nd i live in north america where there are many muslims and non-muslims. If you truthfully ask ,me who i will end up with its a no-muslim girl. Not tht i have anything against islam. I pray 5 times a day nd i still know theres such a thing in this world called love. Nd im looking for it. I doubt a muslim can understand tht but if i do fall in love then it'll be with anyone. I just want to be trully loved back you know.

Answer 10

As long as they convert to islam then i dont really care. I mean the more the merrier.

-Laila

EDIT: Also I agree about lumivalkoinen