When a guy has been dating a girl for a couple of weeks but known her for years, and they are going on date number 2, when is a good time to bring up the "are we officially dating?" conversation? after which date or how long I mean. Also what is a good way to bring it up? and what do you say? Thanks!
2007-10-24 09:48:08 · 11 answers · asked by Susan F 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Question isnt for a girl to ask the guy about the dating status..its to help a guy figure out what to say and when is a good time to say it sorry should have been clearer
2007-10-24 09:53:48 · update #1
I'd wait a month or two... see if you feel like this is the one guy you want to be exclusive with... you should then get a feeling that he would like to be exclusive with you.. THEN.. you can bring it up.
Guys say that nothing makes them want to run for the door quicker than when a girl jumps the gun on the exclusive thing...
Enjoy each other... when the time is right for that conversation.. you will know.. but give it a while...
also.. keep in mind.. that most guys have a 3 date rule (if you don't put out in 3 dates.. they drop you).. so I would defiantly wait until a few after the third.. just to be sure he hasn't decided he just wants to know what you look like under your clothes after all these years.
2007-10-24 09:53:41 · answer #1 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It depends a lot on how old you are I guess. For me dating has always meant just that and I love to go out on dates all the time. It's not until one finds someone special enough to see exclusively that the relationship changes from dating to being a couple (with that the title of bf or gf comes along).
I know you probably like the guy and you don't want to share him (for him to see other girls). But what if tomorrow you wanted to start getting to know (dating) another guy? Shouldn't you also have that freedom?
Tell him how you feel and see what he has to say, for all you know he only wants to date you too.
Good luck
2007-10-24 17:16:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anthonylikes2...☺ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe things are different today than when I was dating a few years ago but I never brought up the "are we officially dating" question with any of my past relationships. It just happened.
The first milestone was typically meeting the parents, then the "L " word
2007-10-24 16:53:17 · answer #3 · answered by mark 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't say it outright. If you really need confirmation say something at the end of the night along the lines of what you want to know. Asking such a question earlier in the night could throw a damper on an otherwise good time.
2007-10-24 16:54:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah like by the end of the 2nd or 3rd good date would be a good time to ask. some might wait a bit longer
2007-10-24 16:52:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should have clear signs by date 3 or 4...
if not, ask...
2007-10-24 16:52:08 · answer #6 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You dont need to ask.Dont try to analyse your relationship.You're official when the other person introduces you as their gf/bf.Or doesn'tr mind when you do
2007-10-24 16:54:25 · answer #7 · answered by Civic_Drifter 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
right after the first time you do it.
2007-10-24 16:51:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
the third date......... by the third date... you should know he's into you...... i mean 2nd might mean he still wants to know if what hes feeling is friend ship and thrid date mean like i like you.... so bring it up like a joke kinda just be like idk, listen to some dane cook, hes funny it'll help you tjhink of something funny!
2007-10-24 16:53:34 · answer #9 · answered by tiaragirl9912 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
probably 2nd or 3rd
and depends what kind of date..
2007-10-24 16:50:53 · answer #10 · answered by shay_132 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋