my bf wants to prove to me that he loves me more than i love him?

Question

my bf wants to prove to me that he loves me more than i luv him by sex and im a freshmen in high school what should i do?

Answer 1

Having sex is no way to prove love. Guys have been using that lame reason since I was your age (and that was MANY years ago). Please don't give into his BS. He is pressuring you to have sex, and this is NO SIGN of love. If he really loved you, then he wouldn't pressure you like this by asking you to "prove" your love by having sex.

Answer 2

Its important to know how old he is. If he is a Junior or older, and if you have been dating for less than four months then his intentions have nothing to do with love and everything to do about sex. If those first two conditions are true then he is trying to manipulate you into having sex, and you should definitely refuse. If he really loved you he would wait as long as it took until you were ready, even if he would have to wait a couple years.
Even if he is closer to your age and you have been going for awhile, you still shouldn't be having sex at your age. There are a lot of guys who find freshman girls as easy bait for sex. They may seem super nice and sincere, but you should be careful, because they are often taking advantage of the fact that you're new to how high school relationships work.
Here's what you should do: Tell him that you aren't ready to have sex yet and you want to wait another year or two. If he has no objections, then you probably have a sincere guy who really does love you. If he objects and tries to push the issue of having sex now or very soon, then you should listen to your brain, not your heart, and get out of the relationship before it becomes something you regret. If he says that he'll wait however long it takes, and if after at least 6 months of a relationship you trust him, then its safe to have sex, however my personal opinion is that you shouldn't be having sex before Junior year, but a great many people can't wait that long.

Answer 3

Tell him that if he loves you more than you love him then he will wait until you are a senior or out of high school. Cuz then when you get pregnant then he will regret it and run away from you and there you will be. alone. just think before you do it. I think you are way too young. Cuz im a freshmen in high school and i would tell my bf what i just told you but i would wait til im out of high school.

Answer 4

Hello,, proving love has nothing to do with sex!! The talk of proving has shown to be less effective then the actions seen. You should be very careful around teenage boys, they are looking for the stepping stones to prove their baby manhood. Don't do it! You will live to regret falling for this old line of crap.

Answer 5

Tell him no. Only do what you feel ready for, which means he may have to wait a long, long time if you are a smart, focused and self aware young woman.

Answer 6

Sex and love are not equatable - one does not prove the other.
If it did, rape would be an entirely different offense.
If you dont want it - dont do it.
But its not proof of anything, in any case.

Answer 7

Wow he's just telling you that to get you to do it. Don't! He isn't being respectful to you at all, it will be a mistake. If he really loves you he'll wait.

Answer 8

well, thats when i first did it, and it was the biggest mistake ever, though im glad i did it. It made me realize that it was so stupid i wouldnt do it again unless i was planning on marrying.

Answer 9

tell him to jump off a cliff. Now that's what I call love.

Answer 10

Tell him no. If he really loves you, he will wait. You're way too young.