I can't wait till I've SEX with my BF. How would GOD handle these thoughts? What would he want me to do?

Question

Should I repress it and say a couple of prayers or should I just go for it?

A serious question.

Yet I am still in an astonishingly good mood!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

But love to rove........

Answer 1

God would want you to be married first,save your virginity for your husband.other than that if its your first time,,,wow what a lucky guy.chow my friend,,freepress p,s Condi is in the house,,coool,,,,

Answer 2

God is Nature - and Nature wants babies - so making babies would be OK - any morals are made by churches or masters to keep peace und have the subjects down, to vaoid trouble,

actions necessary to have babies are fun - biologically in order to have babies, but as we are brain- equipped creatures, differing from animals in culture and using nature for our well-being (well not always in the right way, especially in industrialized countries), me can use also body pleasure without the original purpose. And normally it's a peaceful action compared to so many aggressive and destructive actions people perform, that should are surely against Gods's will.

If you don't want babies now, you should take care of avoiding that beforehand rather than after. Because the after-method is not only against God's will but will haunt most women forever more or less...

Answer 3

Before I decided to answer this, I checked your profile and found out you are a grad student. I wanted make sure you were not 12 or something.
So adult to adult, woman to woman, God made humans to be sexual creatures. Sex is as natural as breathing. If you care for your boyfriend, and have spent some time getting to know him, and you have the desire to have sex with him, then do it. There is nothing wrong with sex. What is wrong is when people misuse sex. It is like money. In and of itself, money is not bad, but it is what people sometimes do with or for money that is bad.
God would not give you something like a healthy sexual desire and then tell you it was bad. But please, if you decide to go ahead and have a sexual relationship, get the monkey called guilt off your back, or it will spoil the whole thing for you. Making love should be a beautiful experience shared between two people who care for each other. Guilt will ruin it.

Answer 4

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Answer 5

Why would you need to advertise this.
This is totally your business, and if you have a connection to God, you would already know, how your higher self feels.

Sex is about the body/mind
God does not handle thoughts
God is not a he
God does not want you to do anything.

If you are in the energy of God and join in union with another in God, that is wonder. That is not sex. That is tantra.

If you are going to have a biological physical release, that is your choice.

Be happy with your life, it is the only one you have at this moment.
Take care.

Answer 6

What does God say about pre-marital sex? Ephesians 5:1-5
Be therefore followers of God, as dear children; And walk in love, as Christ also has loved us, and has given himself for us an offering and a sacrifice to God for a sweet smelling savour. But fornication, and all uncleanness, or covetousness, let it not be once named among you, as becometh saints; Neither filthiness, nor foolish talking, nor jesting, which are not convenient: but rather giving of thanks. For this ye know, that no whoremonger, nor unclean person, nor covetous man, who is an idolater, hath any inheritance in the kingdom of Christ and of God.

Answer 7

Honestly, I think it is the will of God for a Husband and wife to enjoy sex and love with each other.. As it is in Song of Solomon.. I don't believe premarital sex is the will of God, but certainly not inconceivable..

Answer 8

I believe that God gave us sexuality in order to enjoy it. I don't think that God really cares that much how we express is (married, or single, gay or straight, bi, or whatever) He/She/It cares more about how much we love and accept others I think. The sexual drive is a real and important part of our being, and a very sacred part of who we are and our relationship with the Divine. Take a look around you, male/female occurs throughout nature, and it is a splendid thing indeed! Take care of yourself, enjoy your boyfriend. I can't wait till the next time I have sex with my Husband. And we've been married for 12 years! : )

Answer 9

God doesn't handle your thoughts that is up to you. I imagine God would want you to wait till you are married and can share it with your husband. You have to be careful you are an attractive woman there is going to be alot of temptation thrown at you. You can pray about it and ask for strength to wait. It isn't easy that is for sure.

Answer 10

Well if you believe or at least wonder what God would say........think of this what would you say if while having sex with your BF you died....and at the judgement of God you are found guilty of Fornication which God said not to do.......and you was going to be cast into the lake of fire.........now would you say.......i didnt do wrong cause i didnt know what you wanted me to do or what you were thinking God............??? Or does He not tell you already His thinking in His commandements and His Words !!!!! For he who knows to do right and does it not to him it is sin.............and..Anything without Faith is Sin...........and if any commit fornication pray that they be put out from among you that wicked person !!!
So ask yourself...what is God thinking when He has already told you about it ?