what are the positives that outweight all suffering of a human being?

Question

u are born - u suffer, u loose parents - u suffer, u loose other relatives - u suffer, u get illnesses - u suffer, u must go thru absurdal things like formal education and career bullshit - u suffer, u pay your mortgage for decades - u suffer ... etc

u get most of these great gifts from just being born to this world
its given! no need to do anything to get this misery!

now u need to do really ALOT to get some positives to outweight those negatives. is this fair? dont keep saying this is life, blabla, look at this honestly and say why would u bring anyone to this world... just to give yourself a chance to outweight negatives to make your life less negative ... but transfer this problem to your child?

Answer 1

love,friendship, fun and laughter, excitement and the unexpected all make life worth while. I have lost a lot of people close to me, some of whom were v. youmg when they died and i know it is a cliche but life does and must go on.

Answer 2

i ain't trying to bring u that same old story that u heard befor but what is it that u want to hear. do u want the facts or the lies i can give u either one i prefer the trut and the truth is that LIFE is for the living i could set around and point out all that is wrong with this world an point finger at the reason for it and it will not change a d*** thing in the reality of whats going on. now that would make me bitter and i have not lived this long to be mesrable. i refuse to be misrable over something i can't do anything about. I will beat you the52 yrs that i have live on this earth that i could find more good than bad on any give day.i have 4 grown children if i could afford to have more i would i want them to ejoy the pleasures and pains of life because u CAN'T have one without the other what u conpare it to if u didn't have the out come on baby lets live and let live take somebody by the hand and tell them I LOVE U

Answer 3

Life is only what you make of it. Bad things happen to people every day. It isn't what happens to you that determines the outcome. It's how you deal with it. If you see only negative things resulting, you will get negative things. That's just fact.

You can choose to be miserable, see only misery in the world and make everyone around you just as misearble or you can choose to take control of your own life and be responsible for the outcome. Nobody else is responsible for your happiness except you.

You can't blame your misery on anyone or anything except the way that you choose to react to circumstances. If you choose to let them control your life then you will continue to be miserable. If you don't like the results you are getting in life then change your attitude and do something about it.

When you learn to concentrate on what you have and be grateful then you will see things begin to change around you.

The choice is strictly up to you. Stay miserable or change your attitude to one of gratitude and learn to see what you have instead of all the misery.

What you transfer to your child is your attitude and if you transfer misery, you make them miserable. If you transfer an attitude of gratitude then you transfer happiness. That, also is your responsibility.

If you have children and this is your attitude then I would say that the best gift you could ever give them to insure their happiness is to either work on your attitude or get them into counciling as early as possible to try to counteract what you are transfering to them with your miserable attitude of negativity.

I wish you all the best!
Bonnie Ramsey

Answer 4

If you're miserable thats your problem. Loss is loss, suffering is suffering, but theyre temporary moments in life.

Ive held the hands of my dying family members, Ive been molested and abused, Ive moved 750 miles from any relative or friend, been made a fool of and beat up and all sorts of other things. Ive laid dying in a hospital at the fault of a poor doctor... But they only shaped who I am, They didnt ruin me or make my life terrible.

Maybe you need to get out of your funk a little. by and far life has been wonderful.

Answer 5

there are a lot of things that bring misery to our lives. i no wat ur sayin.there is one thing in life thatkills me.its losin my 6 weel old son 3 yrs ago then miscarryin in june after ttc for 18 months..i would bring another baby into the world tomooro if god would ever give me the chance...

Answer 6

LOVE