I was in a restaurant, and suddenly some guy at my school that I sometimes talk to, pulled me into the bathroom with my crush, and i asked her out, and she said no.
I've been confused as to wether or not to ask her out, because I dont know if she has a boyfriend, or if she even likes me. Does this dream mean that I shouldnt ask her out?
2007-10-24 07:46:42 · 5 answers · asked by Brian N 2 in Social Science ➔ Dream Interpretation
This dream means that your mind is still cooking on this.
Screw up some courage (in the older sense of the expression) and talk turkey with the girl.
"Do you have a boyfriend?"
Yes? "How about you give me a try before you get too serious with him? How about ---"
No? "Sure you do--me. How about we---"
Nothing sets uncertainty to rest like a serious question, like a real action. Make a basic plan, plus a backup, then go for it. Let the chips fall where they may. Then you will know. If it didn't go well, then you have some second-guessing dreams to come. (Oh, the thing about a plan, it may not work well, but looks a whole lot better than being stupid while acting at the spur of the moment, trust me, I've done that. Love and infatuation turn us into idiots at times)
2007-10-24 08:25:36 · answer #1 · answered by Rabbit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm...
I'd guess the restaurant is the banquet of life and that the guy who pulled you into the bathroom is an aspect of your self. He represents the "self" that wants to ask her out. He has erupted into your dream-consciousness because he's been repressed by your anxiety about being rejected. Perhaps he chose the bathroom because its a place where one (usually) has privacy, so that if she does reject you, then its between you and her.
The dream simply means that you want to ask her out but are afraid of rejection, but suggests that asking her is between you and her.
Ask her out. If she rejects you, then you know. If not, then you have the opportunity to get to know her better. I promise you, if it means anything at all to others in your circle of acquaintances any teasing you get won't last long. More likely they'll hardly notice, if at all. After all, they have their own lives on which to center their attention.
2007-10-24 15:09:25 · answer #2 · answered by wordweevil 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The dream manifests what you want to do and what you are afraid of... Why the big deal about being rejected? This is one case where you will never know the answer unless you do something... Go ahead. Ask her.
2007-10-28 11:11:26 · answer #3 · answered by april 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a fear of rejection to me. Don't base anything off of a dream like that. Ask her out. Wont know til ya try!
2007-10-24 14:52:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
this dream is merely your mind expressing your crush on her and your fear of rejection. it is not premonitory
2007-10-24 14:49:46 · answer #5 · answered by kleptomanic sheep 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋