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2007-10-25 10:48:43
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answered by Anonymous
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firstly, im afraid that i dont properly understand the grammar of your question, so i cant really answer it :S
Will take a wild guess and piece the words together, that you feel you need to stay in and not talk to anybody.
This is repression and depression. You are socially excluding yoruself for some reason or event that has made you feel you owe a debt to reason yourself to stay in the house. If you can find and make that connection what and why, and try to resolve it or shift the causer, thats a start. Presuming hopefully that the situation is something small.
If you find the connection , however, to be something larger or no matter how much you think when you let your mind relax as to why you feel the need to stay in, what you are oweing, then you will most possibly need the help of a counsillors guidance or other psychologically attained person to help ease the cause out step by step.
This can be done in a manner of methods, and does not strictly mean you have anything 'wrong' with you. It just means that you haev experienced an event that has triggered a backfire somewhere in your mind to senses, that has become covered in a kind of 'block' and needs uncovering.
If say, for example, the cause is the death of a friend from ten years ago that subject A feels guilty about, and wishes spent more time with- thus feeling in their mental state in order to subdue and make up for this guilt, this must then stay in and not talk to anybody.
The advisor will gently ease this out of the mental state without hurting the subject, and change the association from feeling the need to go in, to say, a weekly orderly visit to another friend. This, in effect, has shifted the connection and kept the mental balance or feeling.
The answer to the question is in factm quite huge, and can only be answered by experts and some form of mental release if you are relenting yourself down to a serious mental problem.
I am just answering from my years of psychological experience in the field of mental health probs.
In a more general sense the complexity of the asnwer to the question can also look at age, (teenagers- more susceptible, society, societies expectations..etc), genes, personal feelings and again back to experiences, e.g homelife.
Hope you find the right help and that your problem is not a serious mental problem, but rather down to a phase or that of relating to your age.
2007-10-24 16:01:14
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answer #2
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answered by Skye_Babez 3
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