I really want to know if she would give me another cahnce, after I failed so badly. I have never bomed this bad with a women before.
met a woman (35 yr old) 2 weeks ago while I (22 yr old) was painting a family freinds apartment. We did some painting, but really talked about all kinds of different stuff, which lead her too give me her number. The next day she came over to my place, but we got interuped by my family randomly stoping by( At the worst time) So, a couple of days went by and she came back over, we had every good conversation, but nothing happened between us. Last Monday she came over again and the conversation was very sexual. She started telling me about having sex in Mexico with a 20 year old and how she was having sex with a 21 yr old and a 23 yr old right now. She was even telling me that she like guys to " TAKE CONTROL" Which I read a sign. that read " I WON"T KISS YOU, I WANT YOU TO DO IT. I made the most BONEHEAD MOVE. I asked her for a kiss???? What can I do?
2007-10-24 06:19:27 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh lord...do you really want to get with a woman who admittingly says she's sleeping with a couple different guys right now?! Think with the head on your shoulders and respect yourself...lol.
2007-10-24 06:23:58 · answer #1 · answered by bulldogclover75 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Call her. Tell her, "Hey, I'm going out " fill in the time " to " fill in the blank, "And I want you to tag along. I'll pick you up at" fill in the blank. For example: "Hey Diane. I'm going out to the beach tomorrow, and I'd like you to be there. I'll pick you up at 8:07, so be ready. OK?"
If she's busy, great, just tell her you'll call again sometime, and wish her a good night. Do this a few times and, if she really likes take-control guys, and if she likes you, she'll eventually bite. Or maybe she'll want some "control" herself, and suggest another time.
Don't be predictable, don't wait for her to do the job. And don't care whether she takes you up on it! Because that doesn't go well with the "take charge attitude." Whatever she does, you're going to take charge of having a great night-- this is your attitude.
And of course, don't be a bonehead again. Play it by ear, and play the right notes. You can too do it!
2007-10-24 06:36:06 · answer #2 · answered by kaminegg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's be realistic here... If you worded it differently so we see a picture of a successful older man, who's good looking... I would assume you'd get much different results. Wealth, power and challenge are an aphrodisiac to some women. I'd like to see actual statistic from a non bias poll of honest participants. My guess would be 40% of respondents. The pattern in society is older men hook up with younger women, especially successful older men, and attractive younger women. Secondly, I believe that YA, represents a very small representation of the society at large, so for the most part, the people who come on here, and especially those who decide to respond are not necessarily a qualitative representation of the demographic they try to represent.
2016-04-10 02:42:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhm...does this not strike you as a little odd? She's almost 15 years older than you are! She's a 'cougar' or at least pretty close to one.
You're 22, dude. She's almost middle-aged. Really, what do you two have in common?? You two are in different worlds - you're probably in college, she's pushing middle age.
If you're after a relationship, well, she not only sounds a little unstable but a little desperate. Sounds like she makes a habit of going after drastically younger guys. I wouldn't consider her for anytihng long-term.
And if you're just looking for a casual f***, well, come on...there MUST be people actually close to your own age, ones that are probably better looking too!
2007-10-24 06:31:05 · answer #4 · answered by tryandfindus 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why the hell do you want a woman who is sleeping with 2 other guys let it go i would not bother with it, you dont need no grown woman who is sleeping around like that. oh and if she told you she liked a man who took control that meant get it on and do it now, with women like that you don't have to ask i mean come on she told you she was sleeping with 2 other men for heaven sakes!
2007-10-24 06:24:45 · answer #5 · answered by Texasmom26/30 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
women dont know what they want. they are crazy. no matter what you do theres a good chance of making an a** of yourself. just act like it never happened and she probably will too. if not, forget her. theres plenty of fish in the sea, and shes lucky to have a chance with a younger guy
2007-10-24 06:31:32 · answer #6 · answered by joshtheG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like she likes being in control. which is great more girls should feel like that.
but what are you looking for with this woman? it sounds to me like she is mainly interested in wild and crazy fun with younger men. and she just told you that she was sleeping with another guy. is that someone you really want to get involved with?
plus, just ask her if she would like to see you again. if she thinks you messed up because you asked for a kiss, being a polite and respectable guy, then she doesn't deseerve you.
2007-10-24 06:27:12 · answer #7 · answered by baby_sunshine_4eva 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Seems like she's been around the block a few times. Be careful whatever you decide to do!
2007-10-24 06:25:44 · answer #8 · answered by kind1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say, but, she gave you 3 dates and practically threw her self at you on the last one.
Take this as a cheap lesson;
live and learn.
2007-10-24 08:07:07 · answer #9 · answered by Califiyah 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
THe absolute losest you can go under your age is.... half your age plus 7.
I gotta tell you man this girl creeps me out.
Don't go there she's not all there man.
2007-10-24 06:29:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋