ok here goes i've been talking to this girl for about one month and were have alot in common i asked her out yesterday adn she said she would think about it then her ride came and picked her up and she txted me i dont have time for a boyfriend right now so then i told her "its cool we could still be friends right "she said yead that night she called me and we had the most romantic concersation i had ever had we talked about every thing so then i saw her a skool today and she gave me a peck at skool i was like wtf but then we kissed again and she still doesn't wanna go out with me? whats wrong with me...or her
2007-10-24 06:12:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think just because she can have a boyfriend then she jsut want to be you friends with benefits then when she has time shes yours...
2007-10-24 06:18:09 · answer #1 · answered by kdog 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three possibilities from my point of view.
She said she didn't have time for a boyfriend to see you you'd still be interested. Since you still were interested, she is slowing warming up to the idea. She might just be making sure you really like her and aren't just trying to get into her pants.
Or she might have reconsidered and is quietly giving you a chance without actually reversing her earlier statement.
Or she might just like having guys on the hook and will string you along for as long as possible.
I think you'd have some idea what she's like if she were just stringing you along. Hopefully you know her that well. My personal guess is that she is just trying to keep some measure of control on the pace of your relationship. Just keep your eyes open and hope for the best.
Good luck.
2007-10-24 13:23:44 · answer #2 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She said she doesn't want a b/f but she didn't say she won't go out on dates with you. Maybe she just doesn't have the time to be committed to a guy as his g/f right now. Usually that does mean spending a lot of time together right?
2007-10-24 13:18:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is what we call a c***tease. move on. shes not worth it. She doesn't want a real relationship, and youre never gonna get the care and affection that you want...
She coudl be doing the same with six other guys. Not worth it.
Better love next time.
Peace out.
2007-10-24 13:26:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, she's playing with your feelings. Move on!!
2007-10-24 13:18:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she is just aking things slow and getting to know you more first...
2007-10-24 13:20:01 · answer #6 · answered by SaMi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋