you think you have found a nice, decent guy then all of a sudden he just wants sex, no commitments
it does my head in
i have had about 5 guys like that in the last 6 months
and they all said well everyone said you were easy
what? after having one boyfriend?
that makes me such a slag
and yes my yahoo im is iamaslut69er but my friend made my account, not me and she was joking around
:(
what is it that a lot of lads are after only one thing
as a rule i am not a man hater but there are some people who really make you consider turning lesbian
(no offence to anyone)
2007-10-24 06:09:33 · 18 answers · asked by Emma kisses 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i meant they come on to me and i push them off
i didn't have sex with them
2007-10-24 06:18:40 · update #1
Give me a break !!! In today's life just as many women are looking for it in the first date or two.
You women are not as innocent as you would like others to think you are. When I started dating after my divorce. I wasn't looking for it but most the women I went out with wanted it ASAP.
P.S --- Hey Folks when I looked back at Emma's Q & A.
She's only 16 years old. What can she know about males at that age. She still has alot more growing up to do.
2007-10-24 06:22:47 · answer #1 · answered by Old School 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not all of us are after just sex. I'm not sure why that seems to be the main focus of most guys anymore. Many people tend to attribute it to a kind of peer pressure. Anymore a guy is mocked ruthlessly and labeled a homosexual if he is concerned about anything other than sex with a woman. It's really no excuse, but it's the best answer I can offer. Unfortunately I am unable to gain a woman's perspective on this issue to better understand it as most women find me too ugly to even be my friend or talk to me. So it goes both ways.
2007-10-24 13:19:48 · answer #2 · answered by Aureus19 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you allow urself to be done like that by guys.. then u dont have any platform to complain ur so called problem with guys being &^@#$%^&.
Be careful when choosing the guy u wanna date and dont let them peek in with their "peckers" easily..
Have sex with the ones u really love and do get some assurance from them as well.. I mean not marriage and stuff but more of signs that shows that he's into u and not ur pants..
Gd LuCk!
2007-10-24 13:24:52 · answer #3 · answered by PuMpGuY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A male's primary objective in life (this relates to all animal species) is to pro-create. In simple terms that means have as much sex as humanly possible.
Be proud you have standards and that you won't fall in to our BS. Because lord knows there are a lot of women out there who think that being a slag is the only way...
2007-10-24 13:20:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Change your email handle, and watch what type of vibes you are sending out. Relationships are TWO people, not just one. What you do, say and dress like, and even what your email handle is, says alot about you. Tattoos are also such an invitation to this sort of thing, guys are visual so... ponder that.
2007-10-24 13:16:06 · answer #5 · answered by lawyerslastbreath 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fili-is is right. I have encountered more men interested in just sex then anything else. Although I have only been intimate with 4 men in my life (I am 36) I am certainly not what you can call easy. All I can say is be VERY choosey but don't have much hope in most of them because most are only after one thing. Sorry.
2007-10-24 14:20:59 · answer #6 · answered by Lisa2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said it yourself thought you had 5 boyfriends in 6 months,im afraid if you sleep with every guy on your first date and dont actually get to know him a little he will think that thats all you are worth .thats all you have shown really.So thats all that comes out of it.Guys do think bout sex alot and do want it alot and will try alot to get it but they can respect the girl when eventually getting it and actually wanting to be with the person.The best sex (for those who dont know this)is when you actually get along with a person in a lot of aspects and you feel the intimancy and comfort of the most natural act.Thats not sex any more thats making love.
2007-10-24 13:16:14 · answer #7 · answered by ahvillian 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ur either going for the wrong guys or giving off the wrong vibe... do these guys know eachother? is there any way that somebody could be making stuff up and tarnishing ur rep so these guys are only with you for the 1 thing??? nest guy ur with make him wait ... if hes the real thing and worthy of being with you then he'll wait... don't just hook up with a guy cos u think he's nice... because some guys think that if you do this then ur not nice.
2007-10-24 13:15:12 · answer #8 · answered by heckyah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
personally I got burned twice in a row worse than you could imagine. It showed me the ferocity and lack of empathy that charactarize most women. 90% of the women I get numbers from I could care less about, once in a while someone comes along that I could really care about. But mostly I do it because I don't want to get broken in half again.
2007-10-24 13:14:16 · answer #9 · answered by Nate 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys like sex. ALOT. so, you need to make it clear that you are not that kind of girl if you are worried about it.
then the losers will start to go away and you can work on more caring guys. Looks like you are dating the wrong kind of guy
2007-10-24 13:18:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋