are your friends kids off limits (when they are adults)to date?

Question

if you've known this kid since they were a child and they are now 25 etc...is it bad to sleep with them

i didnt say it was me...its just happened in the very small town i live in...and its sort of divided the town....just wanted to know what the general public thought?

Answer 1

Well its obviously not illegal, but I would say you'll loose a friend through it all. You'd definitely get static from plenty of people. I wouldn't feel comfortable with a close family friend sleeping with my grown son or daughter.

Answer 2

Well you might end up losing a friend if you did. You have known this person since they were a child but that doesn't neccesarily mean that you always think of them as a child. I would weigh my options very carefully, because this could make or break a friendship.

Answer 3

Ok if you have friends who have kids that are 25 then you are obviously too old to be dating or sleeping with them. That is the perfect way to ruin a friendship. Go after your own age Grandpa.

Answer 4

I'm assuming you are much older (the parent's age?).
Depends on the circumstances and your relationship with the family. I also wonder how present you were in the child's life, because if you were around quite often, I don't know how you could be attracted to them.
If not, I don't see much wrong with it as long as the parents don't flip out.

Answer 5

Yes that disgusting! Why would you even want to do that? That young person would look up to you like family and then you want to get in bed with them! You must be a pedophile or something.

And I agree-just asking this question makes you out to be a pervert.

Answer 6

Totally off-limit, just as much as if you were dating their mother or father. If the relationship doesn't work out, you've ruined your friendship. It shows a distinct lack of respect for their feelings.

Answer 7

definite, my mattress room is frequently off limits. i don't enable the youngsters to be in there without particular permission, or except somebody is in there with them. they have unfastened run of something of the homestead, my mattress room is frequently baby-unfastened. they don't could desire to play in my room because of the fact they each and each have their very own mattress room and on proper of that, they have a playroom and a relatives room for all their toys and television gazing desires. i don't could desire to fasten the door or shop it close in the process the day because of the fact the youngsters understand the guideline, and stay out. i don't have something freaky happening in there, yet there are report cabinets with our financial archives, and different issues that I do exactly not want the youngsters digging around in.

Answer 8

Ummm...is she HOT?...ok..ok..that was wrong of me. I would kick the *ss of a buddy of mine went after my daughter. In fact, they could film an episode of The First 48 with what I would do to him. Take a cold shower, use your brain, and go pick up an of-age member of the opposite sex for a quick booty call and keep your friendship intact.

Answer 9

hmmm ... technically no because of there age but its kinda wrong considering you were one of the older figures in the kids life. Unless you see true love blossoming out of this then wats the point ? there are plenty of other fish in the sea , why cause friction with ur friend???

Answer 10

the fact you are wondering if its bad means that you aint thinkin of a relationship but just of sex.,... so would the worry and possible hassle (friends might not be too happy if they find ouy you are shagging their kid) be worth it?
further more, there is probably quite an age difference..
and what does the 'kid' think bout you?